I mean the LAST thing she ever wanted so to become a vampire,and all of sudden she's ok with, sh will never get to grow up and have a family and she's fine with just like that

And don't give me she will be with the ones she loves forever or whatever CRAP, her DRAMS were just crushed to dust forever and I don't care how much good person you are when that happnes you get MAD as he'll for whoever/ however these dreams were TAKEN from you, even that person who took your dreams was someone you loved

I was so angry by the way they written her in this episode!
She never wanted that, she made it clear she'd rather die than become vampire, she know Jeremy needs her as human... and what do we get? After like 3 sentences about not wanting to be vampire she's all happy with eternal life (hey, what about growing up? kids? Don't you mind watching Bonnie, Jeremy, Matt getting old & die? Running away? Bloodlust? Fear of being discoverd by some vampire hunter?), she likek her new jewlery & is all love-dovy with Stefan watching sunrise on the roof. Come on!

I think, because it was hours ago, but in future episodes she will be
when she actually realize what it is

^^ I TRULLY hope you're right. I expected more from TVD writers. As we saw in the leaked promo our girl has major bloodlust control issues, I hope that will give us an interesting storyline that is not out of Elena's character. After transtion she should be even more of Elena, not less, right?

since she wanted Stefan to save Matt and since she always forgives Stefan.....but i find weird the opposite. That she was upset that Damon would save HER! I mean come on...I've said it before...What Damon would do It's love in it's most realistic way. Selfish and selfless

I don't care that "saint" Stefan LET her DIE and saved Matt, because he was too afraid that Elena would HATE him and he can't live with it (yes,that's the REAL reason and not because he "respects" her decision CRAP)
That's NOT my point, it has nothing to do "saint" Stefan or Damon or Matt, it's about having self worth,(yes u love ur friends u would die for them whicshe did) I get that but it's about being sad and mad about your self,about how you lost your chanse to have your dreams come true no matter how small,big,normal,outstading the might be it's about you being MAD because it was TAKEN from you

I'm not saying she should take out on "saint" Stefan for LETTING her DIE (even though any normal person would want to mad at the person who LET them DIE) but she should be angry it's NOT normal for a human or a vampire to lose what they WANTED the most and still act a lovey dovey with the person who TOOK that from you
Yes when she told "saint" Stefan to save Matt and he MADE that decision to LET her DIE(yes it was HIS decision not elena's because unless your a child, insatation/disabled,or complled you make your own choices,nobody forces you to do something you don't want to do) she was welling to give up her life and her dreams for a friend, but it's different when you still have the chance and someone TAKES it from you

Why should she be upset, when she decided she wanted to live. She had the choice of taking or not taking the blood that was in front of her.

No because she have to realize for herself what its like to a vampire. She's in denial about that too, this is Elena. She pretend like everything is fine but it's not. I think we are gonna see her very upset.

@Realist1, no she didn't by that time she was too weak and hungary to mak e any kind of real choose, don't find it oddaly familiar to Damon trastion back in 1864, he was weak and dying and "saint" Stefan basically poured the blood infront of him, it's like you not having water for a week or so and someone offers you a very cold water to drink wouldn't you drink it if you want to live?

Yes, it is not realistic and I call it bad writing. She should even question Stefan's choice even if she wanted him to act that way. Something really bad happened to her because of it. It is human nature to question it.

Yes! very actually because like you said that was the last thing she ever wanted !!

I think she was more in shock and that tonight we will see her become more upset about it.

she had her freakout in 401

She new it was going to happen sooner or later, she was surrounded by vampires.