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The Vampire Diaries TV Show Yes/No (1):If the "love of your life" is drowning, you save them FIRST,no matter how desperately they point another person.Saving is more important than being hated later.
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And when you love someone you can be a little selfish and yet too selfless even if it means she'll hate you forever. (If she loves you trully, she'll forgive you no matter what).
It's what Damon said to Stefan in S2 : You just wish you had the balls to do it yourself.
Stefan is gonna regret it that much that would hurt!
Come on. If I saw my husband drwoning the last thing I'd care about was him pointing whoever - I'd do anything to save him. Let's call it selfish, unrespectful or whatever. But it's what human do. Period.
I think that scene was one of the best and the most heartbreaking for Stelena. He knew she would never, ever let him take her instead of Matt, so he made a choice. The choice she wanted. And that's how it'll always be. You can look at it any way you want, but.. DE fans, if you don't even like Stelena, then why do you have to overanalyse this? Everyone can, and will, look at the situation as they saw it. So why drag it along? Of course Delena fans will think Stefan didn't do the right thing and blah blah blah, and Stelena fans will think the opposite. That's the way it is.
Let's just move on already. Please!
This is stupid there is no point because in another scenario if Stefan let Matt die , you guys will be using another argument just to bash Stefan
I'm not putting Stefan down for the choice he made. It was a difficult situation and he did the best he could and I get that. I just know that if I was in the same place and was watching the love of my life die before my eyes, I would do everything possible to save him and nothing could stop me from that. Shoot, Even Paul Wesley had problems when he read the script and saw what Stefan was going to do. It just goes against every instinct a person has.
This isn't about free will. If we're going to go there, what about Stefan's free will? Did Elena respect that when she demanded that he rescue Matt instead? Did she stop to think how it would destroy him if he had to live with knowing he let her die? Of course not, because it was an emergency and she was panicking and acting only on instinct, just as anyone else in that situation would do. Just as Stefan should have done. I don't care who you are, can you honestly say that you would have a clear enough mind in that situation to risk letting the person you love most in the entire world die simply because she was pointing for you to save someone else instead? Call me selfish or cruel or whatever you want, but there's no way I could leave the love of my life in a lethal situation just because he wanted me to go do something else before saving him. It wouldn't even register in my brain. All I'd be able to focus on is rescuing him.
It's not bashing Stefan to say I disagree with his actions. I still love him as a character (though I like him most when he's far away from Elena), I'm just saying I would have chosen differently, and I think most people would have as well. It's just instinctual.
Thank you! Finally somebody said that!
And also every single word xElevenPiratex said above me, but especially this:
I still love him as a character (though I like him most when he's far away from Elena), I'm just saying I would have chosen differently, and I think most people would have as well. It's just instinctual.
Couldn't have said it better myself. It's easy to say that you'd respect their free will until you haven't been in a similar situation, but it's a whole different story when you have to put that in action.
You know... it's easier said than done.
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