No, because most of the time she started it. She kissed him first in Smashed and started the sex, she went after him in Tabula Rasa and Once More with Feeling. She was the one that came to him in Gone and attacked him, throwing him against a wall and ripping his shirt before he even knew who was there, and she was the one who wanted to keep on going after Xander left. She was the one who started the sexual relationship and she was the one who was using him, so I don't get why she told Tara she was letting Spike do things to her, since she always went to him first most of the time. It just made it seem like she was trying to be a martyr and that she wanted someone to tell her that something was wrong with her, because she couldn't deal with the fact that she had feelings for a soulless vampire. In As You Were she was the one who comes to him asking him to tell her he loved her, and again, starting the sex first.

Considering everything she did to him, it would be hypocritical to say yes. Oh and hmmm, describe these things to me. Their sexual relationship? Well, unless you're going to go with the sex being wrong, then he did nothing.

I agree with you both, that Buffy did in fact became closer to Spike in the Once more with feeling, Spike sang a song to Buffy about staying away from me and Buffy back down, also when Giles told Buffy to go alone to save Dawn. Spike want to help Buffy, she said I thought that you want to stay from me , isn' that what song you sang to me.... Then at the end of epsiode when Buffy sing the about her life in hell when she dead, she felt that she want to want to die, when she about to kill herslef Spike stop her and told that you should live . The end of the epsiode she kissed him at the end show

I think Buffy and Spike truely love each other

A little bit because she was better than that. She was obviously going through a lot but I still think it was out of character for her.

kind of, cause they were both in a way out of character and it was just hard to watch for me. :(

MelBelle2 is so right =(

if buffy hadn't let spike do those things to her she wouldn't have felt guilty about it and broke it off with spike and then spike wouldn't have tryed to rape her and then which means he wouldn't have felt guilty about trying to rape her and wouldn't have gotton a soul and buffy wouldn't have fallen in love with him

what nikadawson said