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Okay, so I have this best friend who has been acting rebellious over the years, and since I've haven't supported her crazy acts she doesn't talk to me except at church( kinda because I don't have a phone.) So today I was bored so I decided look her up, and I found her instagram page. So I noticed she a quiz link for herself. So I clicked on it, and on the quiz there was a question asking "Who's my best friend?." And my name was in the options so I thought since we've been friends for 7 years that had to be the answer. So I clicked. Wrong answer! Should I be mad 'cause I am?

P.S. She didn't give me any reasons that we weren't bffs any more. She always hugging me really tight and tells me she loves me.
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Spicekitten posted over a year ago
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Kinda going off line now please leave a answer. Thank you! (^.^)
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LaDispute said:
Ermmmmm no I wouldn't be mad. You haven't been supporting her and you haven't really been talking - doesn't sound like best friends at all to me. She's probably met other people who do support her more, bc tbh if I were her I'd want to surround myself with people who are encouraging too.

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I have been supportive as far as encouraging her to do the right thing, but she wanted me to tell her it' okay to sleep with her neighbor, smoking, drinking, or doing drugs. By the way she's only 14.
Spicekitten posted over a year ago
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I love her to death and I tell her that all the time, but when she says she's not going to do it any more she turns around and does it again.
Spicekitten posted over a year ago
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Respect her choices either way - if she wants to smoke or drink, who the hell cares? All I'm saying is you can't expect her to say you're her best friend if you keep trying to push her in a direction that suits your morals.
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dooodle said:
No. If you haven't been talking or anything, that doesn't sound like best friends to me.

BUT you have been doing the right thing. Encouraging her not to break the law is GOOD. (I saw your comment on the first answer. Drugs and underage drinking... No. Be by her side and love her as a friend, but try and talk her out of doing bad things. You're helping her. It shows that you really care.)
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