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My grandmother just died last night of Wegener’s granulomatosis. it's a rare disorder that causes the blood vessels to become inflamed, making it hard for blood to flow. I just recently found out about it because my father thought it would be too soon if last night i found out that she died straight away. I tried telling my friends on facebook about it but they don't even care. My grandmother passed away and I can't do anything about it. I just need some help as all.
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First and foremost, I am very sorry to hear about your Grandmother's passing. It is a shame she had suffered, but yet a relief to know what was she suffering from. I am sending out prayers to you and your family. As far as posting things, then finding out that no one commented or cared....that is hurtful. Every person wants to share a hard experience as a way to help get through that rough time. I am just a stranger, but I am sorry your family had a loss. Just remember your true friends will comment, call, come over to be with you. So don't worry about the social network...just take care of yourself and your family.
Pattie77 posted over a year ago
 sMCCarthyTV posted over a year ago
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pikakel19 said:
im so sorry! your friends are being total jerks (no offense) but they don't even care about you or your grandmother. try to talk to someone in person about it, because i can't do anything here over the internet. i do care about it even though i don't even know you, and im very sorry
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agreed. the internet wasn't the best place to go for actual help
kittykazami posted over a year ago
101trx said:
oh wow. so sorry girl. take it easy & think about the good days u've had with her. hopefully that'll lay off the greif. at least she'll rest easy& not suffer any more. she's safe with god watching over u. what were ur friends sayng on facebook?
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Well, first of all, I'm a boy. Second, I could clearly see that I had a bunch of friends online but they never said anything about my post about my grandmother’s passing. They just ignored it instead because they're too "busy" to take the time to feel bad about my grandmother. it's gonna take some time for me to get over her tragety but thanks for the advice though.
sMCCarthyTV posted over a year ago
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oh shit ur a boy?! dam i'm sorry! i'm used to talking to alot of girls here. now i feel bad. hope that didn't offend u. but still, i'm srry for ur loss. i have lost 2 cousins & 3 friends in only 2 1/2 years. its rough i know. :(
101trx posted over a year ago
misscrazel said:
I'm sorry for your loss. I would recommend talking to someone in person. I know how it feels. My grandfather passed away a couple years ago. I was really sad for awhile but I usually don't really think about it anymore. When I do think about it I'm sad but I just want you to know that it will get better.
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Yep. I have the same grandfather, and it does get better, at least for me it did. Talk to someone you trust, and wait. In a year or two the pain should be numbed. If it isn't, I would recommend talking to a consoler. Actually, you can do that now if you need to.
Sylvia_Puffin posted over a year ago
InvaderStorm said:
I'm very sorry for your loss. That must be rough. I've lost family members before, so I kind of know what you're going through. Your friends are being rude-maybe they don't understand how big of a deal it is to you. I say try talking to someone in person about it, maybe they'll understand then. If you were close, you should consider seeing a counselor to help move on. I really hope things get better for you and your family. The sadness does pass on eventually, though, I promise. I know I don't know you very well, but if you need someone to talk to, I'm here to listen. Best wishes.
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adultswimperson said:
Some people don't understand the loss of family, your friends are just idiots who need to see that.
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Dark-Blood said:
im so sorry for ur loss ik ur hurting and will take time to heal if u need someone to lead on or to talk to my wall and inbox r always open
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egyptprincess7 said:
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my grandfather a couple of weeks ago so I have at least a vague idea of what you're going through. You can always talk to your parents or somebody you really trust in real life. There isn't much I can do for you except tell you to remember the good times with her and that she is in a better place.
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zutaradragon said:
well, while i would love 2 help u with ur family issues i can't.....u c, not long ago 3 people died in my family withing 22 days. 1st my aunt, 21 days later her brother (my uncle) and exactly 22 days later (the same time as my aunt and everything) my great grandmother died. and even though it's been about 3 months the wounds r still fresh....i need help 2, but it's mental....i have no friends who i can actually talk 2 about stuff like this because they'd do the same things urs did and i kno better then to use internet to say shit like that...instead i write poems....and wonder y no1 sees tho the mask i ware everyday....i have 2 b Mr. (Miss doesn't have the right ring) Brightside....because if i wasn't I'd break down and cry...
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well, while i would love 2 help u with ur family issues i can't.....u c, not long ago 3 people died in my family withing 22 days. 1st my aunt, 21 days later her brother (my uncle) and exactly 22 days later (the same time as my aunt and everything) my great grandmother died. and even though it's been about 3 months the wounds r still fresh....i need help 2, but it's mental....i have no friends who i can actually talk 2 about stuff like this because they'd do the same things urs did and i kno better then to use internet to say shit like that...instead i write poems....and wonder y no1 sees tho the mask i ware everyday....i have 2 b Mr. (Miss doesn't have the right ring) Brightside....because if i wasn't I'd break down and cry...
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