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I'm crying so hard right now

Okay. So.... my stepdad and my mom were having this argument. Over the Grateful Dead. I was watching My Strange Addiction at 8 PM when my mom began yelling at my stepdad, Darrian, about how all the music he listens to is for 'Stoners'. I got tired of hearing them fighting, so I slapped both of them on the back. Around eleven, while my mom had gone out to get my four year old sister from a week long babysitter and family friend, Diamond, I was watching Pretty Little Liars and my two brothers were watching videos of Minecraft on Youtube on my grandmother's desktop computer I am currently using. When my mom went upstairs to see if Darrian had fallen asleep, he wasn't there. That was it. He just.... vanished. I honestly think he tried to walk out by killing himself, because he is schizophrenic and bipolar. When I found out, I cried until my eyes were sore, seeing as Darrian is Michael, my eight year old brother's biologic father. If he killed himself, which I'm certain he did, then Michael will never be able to see his dad again! They used to do everything together, from video games to watching Super Mario Bros and tickle fights while making peanut butter and banana sandwiches. This is all my fault, just like when I told my mom in fourth grade about the rape of my stepdad, Jeff, causing to go through a major breakdown and depression on the entire family. Can someone please help me and talk to me? Thank you.<3
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*hugs you* It's Ok your step dad could be 100% alive is possible
rileyferguson posted over a year ago
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Go to the Advice club. Notice a shitstorm began here because of some childish fool being a douchebag.. Won't happen on the Advice spot, I assure you. You already know what to do, call 911, report him as missing, but if you want to hear more from people go to the Advice club.
Bond_Of_Fury posted over a year ago
 blossomyumyum posted over a year ago
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Weasel1999 said:
I'm really sorry this has happened to you, it's so sad. I think your stepdad just ran away and none of this is your fault. Don't get yourself all worked up it isn't going to do you any good. I can't really help you with this but I wish you luck and hope you find your stepdad soon <3
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Bond_Of_Fury posted over a year ago
sMCCarthyTV said:
Well Blossom, My answer to the information I gathered from this event you had just explained is that I don't think any of this is your fault. You didn't do anything that caused to your family to tear apart. All it is is probably just family drama. Because of the disappearance of this Darrian member and since you don't know if whether or not he did kill himself, I would recommend you report him to missingpersonreport.org as an Endangered Runaway and maybe they might help you find him and once you do find him, you should settle a time of family therapy to see if there would be an upside to all the drama that's been going on between Darrian, Jeff, Michael, everyone who was involved in all this. Even if Darrian really can't be found and if he really is dead, you should maybe still check in with family therapy to have this mess straighten out. And if none of my advice works then I can't really help but best of luck :)
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Lol, I've been doing family therapy since I was in the seventh grade.
blossomyumyum posted over a year ago
prophet69 said:
Oh, don't worry dear! I'll find your dad and bring him back to your home. Please note the complete sarcasm.
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You're an ass.
Bond_Of_Fury posted over a year ago
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Cool story, bro. Say it again!
prophet69 posted over a year ago
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read it again.
101trx posted over a year ago
Bond_Of_Fury said:
Damn, that sounds tough... I can sort of relate to the things you say. Only thing I can say about it is....you don't know if he's actually....you know. How could you take this on yourself?

Tell you what, go to the Advice club and post this question on there to. Most people on the Random spot sound hard and smart, but when it stuff gets serious most here don't have a lot to say. So....re-post this question on the Advice spot. Lots of people there can help you out. ;)

Just don't put this all on yourself.
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polarwagon15 said:
What are you doing here then? Call 911! There's a good chance that your brother just ran away.
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snakemanfan said:
Why do you think people on here will know, he may have just run away call the cops or something 999 or what ever
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The Internet can't solve all your problems, sometimes it's you who needs to figure it out
snakemanfan posted over a year ago
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Yeah. That was my point. I would help if I could.
prophet69 posted over a year ago
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I would reframe it better but it's kinda complicated to explain, we can't help her physically we can only give advice t
snakemanfan posted over a year ago
TheSpartan9000 said:
Well you should think about how much you love him then, you won't be too sad. If it's too unbearable, think of something that makes you happy. For example rainbows make me happy.
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rileyferguson said:
Call 911 or 999 and let them know that he has gone missing. It would take a while to find him, but if he has committed suicide, Your whole Family would be extremely devastated. If he is very injured, call an ambulance straight away if you have found him. I am very upset at what happened and I hope that your Step dad can be found.
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Call 911 or 999 and let them know that he has gone missing. It would take a while to find him, but if he has committed suicide, Your whole Family would be extremely devastated. If he is very injured, call an ambulance straight away if you have found him. I am very upset at what happened and I hope that your Step dad can be found.
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misscrazel said:
Maybe you should call the police.
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SaraFenix said:
First of all I'm really sorry.
second of all you shouldn't blame yourself, he made a choice by leaving and that's not your fault. I doubt that he killed himself seeing most people who commit suicide leave a note behind. But you probable should contact the police and tell them what happened and they'll do everything to bring him back home, don't worry he's going to be just fine and if you need someone to talk to you still have the people on fanpop to help you :D
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