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Was it alright for me to tell my friend the honest truth on how I really felt about him even though I have a boy friend? I mean I sort of have a crush on him and I can't believe it. Why did he have to go and ask me that if I didn't have a boy friend that would I like him more then just a friend? I really honestly love my boy friend though. My boy friend is the best. I love my boy friend with all of my heart. I must be so terrible. How could I possibly have a crush on another guy if I already have such a wonderful boy friend? I mean I am not going to cheat on him, cause I'm not the cheating type. I told him that I would never cheat. Should I even talk to this friend of mine anymore? It makes me really happy to talk to him. I thought about also telling my boy friend about it, but he may just think I'm cheating, get his feelings hurt and break up with me. He's such a good boy friend though and he's always been very good and faithful to me. I just love him so much. I feel terrible. What should I do about all of this? I already told the other guy how much I love my boy friend and that we could never be more then just friends.
 MewStrawberry posted over a year ago
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TheOnlyBoss said:
well i think that even though you might say you love ur boyfriend i think u should follow ur heart and be with that guy and tell ur boyfriend the truth.. also follw ur heart*
hope that helps:)
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posted over a year ago 
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No, that's not what I'm saying. I love my boy friend and I don't want to be with that other guy. I love my boy friend the most. I'm just wondering that why all of sudden I get a crush on some other guy? Is it even possible to still be in love with your boy friend, while accidentally having a crush someone else? I want to be with my boy friend, not him.
MewStrawberry posted over a year ago
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TheOnlyBoss, ofcourse it's just my opinion but i don't think breaking up with somebody everytime you have a crush is the way to go :P
coriann posted over a year ago
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MewStrawberry, you have a crush, that does not make you a bad person :)
coriann posted over a year ago
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Its not like I'm going to break up with my boy friend. I feel that in my heart that I know he's the one who means more to me. I just felt guilty for having a crush on that guy that's all and thinking of how my boy friend would feel about it. I really love my boy friend the most though. I only like this guy and it was just like a crush. I think he might still like me though.
MewStrawberry posted over a year ago
coriann said:
It's an attraction sweetie, it happens all the time. If you beak up with your boyfriend and be with the guy, you will still love you boyfriend and have to get over him. If you stay with your boyfriend you will probably feel a little something for the guy but that's alright. An attraction happens automatically without us trying, love is a choice that you make only when you felt you've found the right person and you are also attracted to them, lol, cause if you weren't attracted to them then that would defeat the whole purpose, anyways, you already know who you are attracted to, now it's the time to figure out who you want to love, who you want to be with and stay faithful too ^ ^
you are not a horrible person, just a mammal who is bound by such feelings as love, it's just as natural as being hungry or needing to pee, now ofcourse this is just my opinion, i could be wrong but it's still always good to try to help, good luck sweetie ^ ^
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posted over a year ago 
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i hope you gained "something" useful from this, lol
coriann posted over a year ago
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Thank you.
MewStrawberry posted over a year ago
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any time :)
coriann posted over a year ago
Me-Iz-Here said:
its totally normal to have crushes on other people, dont worry about it
the crush will most likely go away soon, just wait it out and continue to be friends with the guy!! no need to mess anything up here
and if you wanna talk to your boyfriend or not it's your choice (shouldnt really matter), but he should understand and be fine with it. if he isn't, then he's not a good boyfriend anyway
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If I told my boy friend about this...Well he is a depressed, Bipolar and Schizophrenic guy. So he could get hurt easily. He may think that he's worthless and not good enough for me. He always gets like that, but I guess I don't have to tell him about it. I just felt guilty that's all or is okay to just keep this a secret? I would really rather not say anything, because this is just a crush after all. I'm not in love with the other guy.
MewStrawberry posted over a year ago
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if you think it's best not to tell him, you dont have to! after all, it's not a huge thing. attraction to other people is just natural, no need to feel too guilty.
Me-Iz-Here posted over a year ago
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I think I might decide to just not say anything. He already thinks that he's not good enough for me, which I keep reassuring him that he is. So that would just crush him even more to tell him what happened and may get the wrong idea. I'm getting so sick of a lot of guys coming on to me lately. I know they can't help how they feel about me, but geez...And then out of all of those other guys. I just happen to crush on this very one at the moment. I hate all of this pressure from so many guys.
MewStrawberry posted over a year ago
laura199627 said:
If it makes you happy to talk to your friend, well go ahead. Life is about making things that make you happy. And if you have special feelings for him, follow your heart. But if you really really love your boyfriend, You decide.
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