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If I walked away from somebody who made me feel like absolute shit, am I the one to blame?

..Just wondering. Because I didn't explain anything to them, never told them how I feel, and gradually stopped hanging out with them (this September, actually; after a year and a half of being with them). And now they make me feel so bad/guilty by asking me stuff like "Do you hate us?", "Why don't you want to hang out with us anymore?", "Why are you so cold?" etc. etc.

...I'm just really confused. :/
 Templarette posted over a year ago
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
You should have explained how you felt, to give them some closure.

But other than that, not really
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posted over a year ago 
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I see your point, but..What if they'll react, um..Not calmly?
Templarette posted over a year ago
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If their response is negative just walk away.
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
brandonaz said:
Nothing's your fault; you should always walk away from people who make you feel like shit because they're bad for you and you should surround yourself with positive people. I think you should be straight with them now though and tell them why you stopped hanging out with them, for closure.

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Thank you for answering. :) I think I might actually do that soon.
Templarette posted over a year ago
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Great answer.
jester616 posted over a year ago
HeitsiTsegin said:
You have no obligation to be nice to someone who does nothing but hurt you.
Now, if that person does do nice things for you once in a while, he/she may be trying to be nice but is having a hard time with it. You should do what you think is best, but try to think about it before you do it.
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Solas said:
If your relationship with someone is destructive then you have every right to walk away. But I think you do owe them an explanation. Just so that you put it all behind you and move on. Even if they respond badly to what you say, you shouldn't feel bad about it because you have done your best to resolve the situation.
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goldenstar12 said:
You should tell them the truth.... maybe they feel like its a slap in the face to them. They are wondering. Dont worry you are not the one at fault... it would though be a good idea to tell them why you have changed sides.?? One thing for sure you do not need to feel guilty because that will just eat you. its human nature to change so its fine.
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madisonkbruce said:
hell to the fucking no
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JenniferxD said:
No way! Why should you stay around people who make you feel like shit? That's only a stress booster not to mention it would be super annoying to have to face someone who always shuts you down. But if they ask you that again, explain why. Hopefully, they understand. And they might stop doing whatever it is that's making you feel like shit. Sometimes, you have to point out a flaw.
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