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seffro said:
Dirty Talk
Some guys have a natural talent when it comes to 'dirty talk' and others not so much, but it is a skill that one can learn fairly easily. For those who do not know dirty talk is the act of speaking in a sexual or 'dirty' way that is erotic in nature. A lot of guys like dirty talk of some kind and others not so much. You should be able to tell if he is positive or negative towards it. There are different extremes of dirty talk that you can choose from. There are very casual and what some might call 'normal' dirty talk that is common during sex like, "It feels good", "faster..harder", or the all too powerful, "Your so big" now some people fail to realize that dirty talk can be fairly powerful and weather or not you or he knows it is highly psychological and actually few know but hearing or speaking erotically charged words stimulates dopamine transmission, which play a huge role in sexual stimulation, and can increase both yours and his sexual experience. Now the light or casual dirty talk is all too common and may sometimes prove to be hardly affective which is why some people may choose a different level of dirty talk to a more moderate to extreme level. Though a word of caution when trying out different levels because it can become more insulting than arousing sometimes so be careful what you say cause you can make him upset so make sure to read his expressions to see if he really likes it or better yet ask him. Some of the more extreme dirty talk gets into vulgar languages and what some would consider insulting words like, "You dirty wh0re", "Filthy Sl-ut", "Dirty little tramp", and so on. One of the most erotic things that will get a guy hot is "I'm coming". Announcing your orgasm's arrival also amps up anticipation for that pivotal moment, thus enhancing enjoyment for both of you.
Moaning is also something that drive a lot of seme's crazy. Hearing their lover moan with passion triggers psychological and physical responses that also release hormones that continue to drive sexual stimulation. So if you are not a very vocal sexual partner in terms of moaning consider adding a moan or two and see his response. But try not to over do it, you may be having sex but I doubt he's stupid so he might be able to tell. So keep it natural. The last thing you want is to make him think that your faking it. It may hurt his self esteem and some guys have sensitive and sometimes massive egos. Nothing more manly than being able to please your partner so if he thinks your faking it by catching your "fake" moaning may give him the wrong idea. If you do it right moaning can be as powerful as any body part you have in bringing sexual arousal. Just remember, like the Three Little Bears, there is too hot, too cold and just right. Make sure that your moans are in sync and make sure you dont become a bad porn movie where all you can hear is annoying moaning.
Lol I copy and pasted from the first Google link xP
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