#amzel Whether you realize it or not. You're being selfish and irrational. You aren't an island people do care about you. You're aren't alone but you need to understand that. Cutting yourself is not the thing to do amzel. I honestly hope you aren't doing this out of peer pressure because if that's the case. I'd say you need more help than what I just said in my answer. And oh you're joking about cutting? Cutting isn't a joke nor is it funny in any matter at all.
Amzel You seriously need help. Big time. Cutting yourself isn't a healthy habit. I understand you may be going through something but try to talk it out to someone or go to a therapist to fix this problem. Cutting isn't the solution. It''ll be a better idea trying to solve the solution rather than using something that will only be temporary.
No I have not cut myself purposely. Now before you come on my answer explaining why you need to cut yourself. Let me explain something. There is LITERALLY no good reason in the world to cause you to cut yourself out of depression. You can handle this differently than you are doing now. Whether you choose to or not is of your own accord.
@amzel Didn't you read anything I said? Don't make excuses because they aren't acceptable. There's no reason to cut yourself. You are hurting your friends and family with that mindset.
SERIOUSLY, YOU MAY NOT CARE, BUT I CARE ABOUT YOU. DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH IT HURTS KNOWING ONE OF MY FRIENDS HARMS THEMSELVES PURPOSEFULLY? IT SUCKS. IT'S POINTLESS. SERIOUSLY.
posted over a year ago
If I don't cause pain on my-self I'll probably end up killing someone or at least descrating someone else's body!
Not my wrist, but I started on the back of my arm. Then I stopped, because I realized it was peer pressure telling me to. It seemed that every girl I saw had cut herself, even my best friend, and while they kept on cutting themselves and tried to stop cutting themselves, nobody asked how I felt about the fact that my best friend was intentionally harming herself. Which, in itself, is stupid. Nobody gives a real crap about me, and I knew it.
So, yeah. I basically cut myself on my arm once.
posted over a year ago
I know, I used to cut myself, but not my wrist, and then I stopped because I realized how stupid it was, and the pain it was causing my friends.
Like I said, my friend had cut herself, both on her ankles and her wrists. It does hurt a lot, to know that someone you care about is doing that to themself.
no ive never done that before. Super awkward question -____- but you SERIOUSLY should not do that anymore. Please get counselling. thats wut i do and it helps once you open up to someone. and i know its hard to talk about certain things buts its better to hold it in or take it out on urself. if you dont wanna talk about it to a counseller Im allways here and im sure you have other friends that would be glad to help you through this tough time. But you can talk to me about anything if you need to buyt please dont do that anymore!
No but it's not like i havent thought about it but cutting isnt the answer no matter what it's unhealthy and theres always better ways to cope talk to someone you can trust (dosnt have to be on the phone) and let it all out then find something to help you distract yourself from that (NO CUTTING ANYWHERE ELSE ON YOUR BODY).
posted over a year ago
PLZ. PLZ. PEOPLE WHO CUT THEMSELFS GET HELP!!!!!!!!!!! YOU'LL LIVE LONGER! (sorry for the abused caps)
I don't hurt people, but I want to sometimes. Especially those annoying people with the snide remarks. I only picture myself hurting people, but I never go through with it. Don't want to go to prison for someone pathetic.
Yes I have because unhappiness was so hard to bare that I had to do something to kill the pain but I no longer do it...
P.S TO THE PEOPLE WHO ARE SAYING...
OMG why would you do that why would you hurt yourself? or
You know that's dangerous or deadly,
Sometimes saying nothing is better then saying things like that sometimes hugging that person and saying everything is going to be alright is better and more helpful because people who do things like that don't need your self pitty or hateful words because really people who haven't cut don't know what there talking about or how it feels to be that sad and hurt that, that's your last thing to do so I believe that you should just be quite...
Yeah be quiet and let them kill themselves. That's a brilliant idea. You may not want any help but in the end you may grow to regret that. Cutting isn't a good thing because that is fatal. You may say some people wanna die but guess what that doesn't it's okay. And for people who wanna take their life. They are selfish because some people may care for them and they will be heartbroken because of that decision. I am not being judgmental. i am trying to help my friend and others. If they do not want it then fine. That is of their accord but don't tell me to be quiet.
I know that but that's not what I meant some just understand and the whole reason why I stopped was because I wanted to help people like me if you truly knew me you would see my dream with is to stop this problem.
Since this question has spammed my updates I might as well answer:
Once, but I sucked it up and realized; Hey, who cares! Be happy and move on with life, dwell in the history and you'll be history
No, but some girl in sixth grade tried to do it to me. She didn't know what it was and saw her sister doing it so her idea was to test it on me. I told her no and it looked like it hurt. So when I didn't do it she tried to do it for me and so we had a bit of a shoving fight. No one was even punched, but I think I won. She was on the floor when I left, so i just assumed I won. She didn't cut me either so yeah
No but I have thoughts about it sometimes. Not anymore but still. Anyway, all I can say is that you seem like you need a good listener. I'll be there for you to talk to if you want. Or you can go and seek professional help. They probably know better what to do about it. But please, don't do that anymore. I'd give you a big supportive hug if this wasn't the internet. You have people on your side! Stay strong!
No, and I never hope to.
Amzel, please get help. Slitting your wrists is serious.
I know a couple people who have slit their wrists.
One is an old friend who I don't see anymore, but people say she started slitting her wrists and she has to hide them now. I'm sure it was out of peer pressure though; it wasn't like her to do that because of a real problem.
The other girl I know who slit her wrists is my best guy friend's older sister. She was anorexic for a while, and got mixed up in drinking and driving, and then she had a drug addiction, and she had an abusive boyfriend, and then things just spiralled out of control, so now she lives with her friend in New York, just laying low and going to therapy so she won't kill herself.
And her brother, my best guy friend, it all falls on his shoulders, and he had a nervous breakdown and only got out of therapy a few days ago. I found out through Facebook. I can't wait to see him.
Okay this is going to sound a little weird but think on it before you discard it....... Have you ever thought our generation was being plauged by things our forefathers did i mean we did not drop out of the sky we came from their genitalia so its like they genetically created us passing to us the germ of life and the ability to carry on their work. Maybe we get so depressed because of our memory banks containing memories from our ancestors because it seems a lot of kids are cutting themselves killing each other and doing drugs...... it seems we might need to find a way to heal ignored generational wounds..... PEACE!!!
Mine have been cut open, yes. But um, not on purpose. Have 1 scar on each wrists. 1 going down and 1 going across. They didn't hurt though but they could of killed me because they're so close to that important vein that you could bleed to death from. Yeah, they're noticable but they were accidents. I actually have a lot of scars from fights, accidents, etc. Including a small but noticable nick/cut whatever you want to call iton the top of my right ear from a fight. And yeah, I've cut my arm a fe times a long ass time ago but not anymore. But please don't cut yourself. You can die because of it... :'(
Yes but it was because I was bit by a snake
It was at a birthday party at the park and there were a lot of kids
So I tryed to grab it and move it and it bit me :3 on the hand
So I moved it and let some of the blood drain out
