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Is my boyfriend right? Am I judgemental and shallow?

My boyfriend's friends are into drugs. Not real hard stuff or anything, but I totally disagree with it. I said it to him the other day that I didn't want to be hanging around with them and he said I was judgemental and shallow because of it. Is he right? They're pretty nice guys, but I disagree completely with drugs....should I just ignore it? But I don't want these guys hanging around my house? And because my bf got so defensive, I'm afraid he's started into them. If this is true, and he insists on continuing to use them, do you think I should end it with him?? :/
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Thanks for all the advice guys!! :) x
basketballstar posted over a year ago
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NoahFanNumber1 said:
My advice: dump the guy for someone better. Don't worry about yourself being "shallow", because you're smart for wanting to not be around them, just don't have a boyfriend who calls you names and doesn't say "yes" to you.


I don't know you that well, but you are definitely NOT shallow or judgmental. You are very smart for trying to avoid those idiot pot-heads.

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Couldn't of said it better.^
Chewfjkd posted over a year ago
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^why thank you 0u0
NoahFanNumber1 posted over a year ago
m0shercisee said:
not shallow but a little judgemental yea. i do weed sometimes and i know a lot of people who do. doing drugs doesn't make someone a bad person so don't break up with him for that. jus let him and his friends do their own thing and stop trying to control what you boyfriend does. you can tell them you don't want them at your house but who your bf is friends with isn't up to you :/

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drugs can KILL you...does your life mean anything to you!?
purpleslurp12 posted over a year ago
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things like weed don't kill 99.9% of people and that's all most people do. anyway that had nothing to do with the question aha.
m0shercisee posted over a year ago
BeastBoyCahill said:
No, he's wrong.
They're wrong to do drugs and you should try to reason with him... (Of course, you ARE trying to reason with him... that's just something I think you should keep going with.)
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
You are not the shallow one. You are the smart one and he is just defensive. It is sad. You don't want to get busted if he gets into trouble because you are with them or something. If he's into drugs I'd just blow him off now while you can before it really hurts you.
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couldn't have said it better myself! *votes best answer*
purpleslurp12 posted over a year ago
ixAthena said:
It's your boyfriend who's wrong, not you.
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Ssmiley_143 said:
I think if you don't like hanging around with him why not just dump him?
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BlindBandit92 said:
Some people would disagree with me. I do know that people have been trying to get certain drugs legal but honestly if he is not doing it for medicinal purposes and is doing illegally, I say dump him because dating who is addicted to drugs can hurt you even if you don't do it yourself. Your boyfriend is just defensive.

Just my take on the matter.
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greengirl8 said:
Yes! If you feel uncomfortable with what they're doing, you should stop hanging with them. And your boyfiend is totally wrong, you are not judgemental and shallow! Don't ever let anybody push you around, especially when it comes to matters like this! :)
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