What do you do when your having problems with the you love but is falling for some one else :/

Sorry hon, i dont know what to tell you. Im pretty much having the same problem.

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I dunno, haven't had a crush... or a boyfriend...

There are some grammatical errors in your question.

I'm not sure, I've been in love with the same guy for 3+ years.

That's not an easy question to answer. Maybe you could do something special that reminds him of why he fell for you in the first place. Sometimes there is no way to stop it. Sad to say, it happened to me overnight with pretty much no warning.