What does it mean to be in control...when you have no control?

Actually you do have control over your emotions. You can be two things in a difficult situation: an owner and a victim... If you are an owner you will think logically (for example can it be fixed? if so dont worry, can it not be fixed? then why be sad?)and does not let the emotions get him, like when you are being irritated by somebody it is to have the power not to get angry and control your emotions. That person is an owner and can control his emotions. A victim is the opposite. When you try to be an owner you actually take control of your self and your feeling and emotions

being in control means really that you can handle your emotions according to the situation, and don't randomly lash out at people or things. .3.