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Ceri_loves1D said:
I think a Directioner doesn't have to be someone who was there from the start. I admit that I wasn't aware of the boys until last year. I think it just has to be someone who truly loves and supports them. Some people come up with unrealistic answers like "You need to know absolutely everything about One Direction to be a Directioner" or "You must have their posters all over your bedroom or you're not a true Directioner". The truth is, I think being a Directioner doesn't have to be materialistic, it has to come from the heart. So what if your room isn't plastered with 1D merchandise? Does that mean you love them less than anyone else? And all those supposedly "true Directioners" out there say that you can't feel hurt or sad whenever the boys get a girlfriend. The truth is, that's impossible. We (Directioners), love One Direction, every one of those boys means something special to us. Of course when they get a girlfriend we're going to feel a little heartbroken because it destroys a small part of our fantasies of being friends, dating or even marrying any one of the boys! Just because you feel that way doesn't mean you don't care. And it's completely fine to have a favourite, it's like a mom having kids: of course you love all of them but sometimes you're just going to prefer one over the others.
The thing is, here's my experience on being a Directioner:
No, I haven't been there from the start. No, I don't know everything about the boys, neither does any one of you for that fact. Yes, there are things I hope they would change (e.g. Zayn smoking), but I respect their choices if they choose to do so. Yes, occasionally I do have a favourite for a number of reasons.Yes, I do have fantasies about going out with any one of the boys, who doesn't? No, my room isn't covered in posters and I don't even have one piece of 1D merchandise for that fact. But I love One Direction. I am a Directioner. And personally, I don't think we should fight over who's a Directioner and who's not. I'm sure the boys would appreciate it if we were all Directioners in our own way. Individual but part of a family. And I know that through thick and thin, us Directioners will stick together and love and support these boys all the way.
I hope this answer helped, because that's what I've learnt from being a Directioner :) <3
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