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I think I'm in love with my boyfriend, but I think I might still be in love with my ex, who is my bestfriend now that we aren't dating... I need advice....

I was dating this guy for a while, and I really fell for him... and fell hard. He was/ still is everything that I've ever wanted. I really fell in love with him. But my parents didn't agree, and wouldn't let me see him. He's 18, I'm 16... So he decided it would be best if we were just friends so that no one got in any trouble. So we were friends, but I was still in love with him. I started dating this other guy, who I've been trying to get with for over a year. I really think I love him too. I'm still really good friends with my ex, we talk every night, and I can go to him with anything. I am still in love with him... and it kills me because he keeps getting with other girls who don't do anything except hurt him. He calls me crying because of these other girls, and there isn't anything that I can do about it. But I really do love the guy that I'm with. He's amazing, and if I didn't have him I don't know what I would do...
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the ex is in jail now...
sadie_kay posted over a year ago
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huh ? why ? :$ :,(
zomeister posted over a year ago
 sadie_kay posted over a year ago
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Alexander_Rybak said:
I think you have to decide who you love the most !

Okay your parents why don't they agree? Is it just cuz off the age difference?
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Yes, It is because of the age difference. But I don't think I would ever go back to him...
sadie_kay posted over a year ago
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it's not such a big age difference ..; but if you don't think that you will ever get back to him ... What are we talking about?
Alexander_Rybak posted over a year ago
DaHoTeStWiTcH said:
GIRLY I KNOW JUST HOW U FEEL. I AM A SUCKER FOR LOVE AND WHEN I FALL I FALL FOREVER AND DONT REALIZE I HAVE LANDED UNTIL IM HURT BY THE GUY. BUT U JUST NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHO LOVE MORE. IF ITS UR BEST FRIEND AND U GUYS WANNA BE TOGETHER THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN WITH UR PARENTS AND TELL THEM EXACTLY HOW U FEEL. THEY SHOULD UNDERSTAND IF UR REALLY IN LOVE WITH HIM.
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R33n33sm3 said:
the problem you have here ıs that you dont know who to choose between them two?
I'd say this:follow you're heart.
sure ıt may sound cheezy and probably lame but ın thıs case you've broken up wıth your bf just because your parents thought he was too bıg for you?
If you truly badly love hım you shouldnt have let hım pass beneath your eyes,and ım sure ıt was hard for you to watch hım wıth all those gırls,as thıs also happened to me.
the good fact ıs that you have a good relatıonshıp wıth your ex.
the trıcky part ıs that you fell for another guy to escape from your paın towards your ex.
my advıce:
>talk to your ex boyfrıend about ıt.
>be sure he understands exactly your sıtuatıon.
>put the questıon:'do İ love hım?'for your current boyfrıend,askıng yourself ıf you really do love hım --and not that you are usıng hım to escape the paın from your ex.boyf.
>ıf you got to the conclusıon that you stıll love your current boyf.try to spend more tıme wıth your bf.and have a stable relatıonshıp.>you mıght try to avoıd your ex.boyf.for a whıle or you mıght try get close frıends wıth your ex(ıt's your choıce,however you please,but be careful not to get carrıed away)
>If you decıded you dont love your currently boyfrıend,explaın ıt to hım and as your ex. ıs free tell hım that you couldnt get over hım.
>youre parents probably dont know what you feel for that boy so dont let them ruın youre relatıonshıp.
take care:)
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iandamonfan said:
Leave your parents out of the picture... You're gonna be 18 soon, so...
The thing is you need to KNOW who you feel more complete with... more than that I can't say because it's you who knows what kind of guys they are and stuff. Or maybe you should take a break from both of them. Clear your head...
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