Can anyone help me get over the loss of my uncle? He was arresting someone and A GOOD 4 NOTHING TRAIN HIT HIM!!!!

First of all, I'm so sorry for you loss. My deepest condolences for you and your family.

Losing someone you love it probable the worst thing that can happen, but the good news is time will heal the pain.

Try to focus on his life, not his death. Remember him for the wonderful person he was. Talk about him with your family and friends, even if it makes you cry. Crying is a natural way of dealing with your emotions and it's nothing to be ashamed off. Also, don't feel guilty if something funny happens and you laugh. Talk about nice memories of your uncle when you want to, but also don't be afraid to talk about something entirely else too. That's the first step to living your life without him. Once the memorial service and funeral stuff are over you have to get back to your normal life. Talk about him when you want to, even if his death has been a long time ago, grieving takes time. Deal with this in your way, not the way you thing you have to if that doesn't feel right for you.

Remember: focus on his life, not his death. Don't think of all the moment you miss with him, but of all the moments you shared with him.

I wish you and your family all the strength tomorrow and in all the hard days to come.

If you want to talk more, feel free to send me a message!

Lots of love,

Eline

I agree. I am so sorry about what happened to your uncle. I know how you feel- half of my entire family is dead. But what I do is not negatively think about his death, but think positive about his life.

I'd suggest to speak on his behalf at the momorial sevice and say why you loved him so much and how you still do. I hope the memorial service works out and you'll remember that he is in a better place and he would probably be nothing without you and your family. Good luck! ^_^

Love as always,

Emma <3

P.S. If you want to talk to me about it, I would be more than happy!

how the hell is the internet supposed to help u with a lost family member, no afense but dont u have any family to talk to, its like your just asking for attention or somthing, im sorry for ur loss but this isnt somthing u shud really use the internet for...