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Jamie86 said:
Guys always need more time to get used to and explore their feelings. So, you should grant him the time he needs to feel ready to act upon his feelings. But don't wait for too long, because he may be leading you on, or maybe he's afraid to hurt your feelings when he doesn't return them.
What you could do is act independent and confident, as if you don't need him to be happy (which you don't). Be nice to him, without making him feel pressured. You have the right to show him that you like him and that you liked it when you went out together. Show him what he'll get when he chooses to go out with you again, namely a great girl that will contribute to his life, rather than a clingy chick that needs him to fulfill her own. Make his friends like you, so it'll be easier for him to accept that he likes you.
When you think he's had enough time to think, but he doesn't have an answer yet, ask him, in a way that can be interpreted as either slightly joking or serious, what's taking him so long, or if he has an answer yet or something along those lines.
Good luck!
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