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Does anyone have any good ideas to wean me off this guy? (Please read for more of the story.) I need ideas to get him off my mind.

I've had this crush on this guy for the past two months. He's amazingly nice & sweet to me & is the first guy that has just made me genially happy. Last week, I told him that I liked him & he didn't say anything back if he liked me or not, so last night @ the dance, I confronted him & asked him how he felt. He told me that he thought of me only as a friend & I tried not to act heartbroken in front of him, but I was REALLY angry & I just haven't been myself today, (although, he didn't make me myself either, I was too happy & cheerful, not mean and hateful like the usual Kali everyone knows.) But, I don't want to hate him like all the other guys, but I need to get him off my mind, (because he's all I've been able to think about the past 2 weeks) & now he's eating away @ my brain cells. So, does anyone have any advice on how I should get my mind off of him? (Note: I do not live in a town, so I cannot go to a mall, theater, shopping center, or see my friend’s everyday.) Please help me, I'm desperate. <3

CullenProperty posted over a year ago

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thespikedturtle said:

Don't forget about him. Just ask him for a friendly hug at the very least to put your mind at ease. If you cry, don't worry about it, guys are sensitive too, I would know! If he still wants you as a friend, take it for sure. Most importantly, calm down. Play a game, watch a movie, talk to fanpop friends, just calm down. If it was truly meant to be, it will happen, you have to believe that.

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posted over a year ago

It's not meant to be though, but I still like him & it's gonna take forever to get over him. Thanks for the advice. I dont want to forget him, I just don't want to think of him every stinking minute of every stinking day & I don't want to cry ALL the time. He wants to be friends but I think it'll be awkward if I ask for hugs. I want him so bad right now, gosh... I'm crying.

CullenProperty posted over a year ago

Oh, I'm so sorry... Believe me, I'm a guy, I give hugs to friends all the time. (at least girsl, I don't hug other guys, that'd be awkward! lol) If he truly does want you as a friend, he should respect your feelings, just try to get a hug from him, it's a good sign of friendship, it doesn't have to mean anything more, and it really can put your mind at ease.

thespikedturtle posted over a year ago

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Thank you soooo much! Your the first person to say that obsessing isn't bad for me; All my friends HATE it when I start "obsessing" over something. But I"m not obsessed over Josh, I just really like him ya know? Anyway, I hope I will be thankful to have him as a friend, but if he makes it awkward & makes me not like him, then I guess that is good too, I just don't want to end up hating him too.

CullenProperty posted over a year ago

EYBanuelos said:

Just get over it! Is not good to be depressed all the time for a guy who doesn't like you! You can be friends with him though! Just try to be happy, life is really beautiful and brings new things everyday. Who knows, one day, you might find your perfect match!

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posted over a year ago

Might, key word, I hyly doubt it though. Thanks for the advice, but I just CANNOT get over him that fast. I don't know how I'm gonna be happy if he isn't in my life, I just want him out of my friggin head!

CullenProperty posted over a year ago

Jamie86 said:

When I was young, I met this girl I really, really liked and I wanted her to be my girlfriend. But she saw me as "just a friend". That sucks so much, I know! But there's no changing it. What helped me a lot, was trying to notice other girls again. In the months I had fallen in love with her, I just forgot about them. So I focussed my attention to all the other girls that I came across, and eventually I noticed that there were more than enough girls for me to have fun with, without making wedding plans :P. In the meantime I stayed friends with the girl I had fallen in love with, but when I had put things in perspective I noticed that she wasn't the one and only for me. So try to live a little more relaxed. Have fun with other people. You don't have to be ready to mary a guy to date him or anything. I won't say that you won't be heart broken again, and you will feel like you've found the one some more times but you'll get over it and life will go on. So to get Josh out of your head AND maybe find someone else: give all those poor other guys in your life (that you wouldn't notice because you were all focused on Josh) a chance ;)

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posted over a year ago

I live in a place where there's only 37 kids in the ENTIRE school & he's the only amazing guy here... I didn't say I wanted to marry him, plus before I did that with this certain guy, I'd have to change his religion... :D But Josh is so amazing and I need him!!!

CullenProperty posted over a year ago

BTW: thanks for the advice.

CullenProperty posted over a year ago

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