Someone said they love me in a serious mannor twice, do I believe it even though they show little interest in me when in big groups?
its so horrible because i already realy like this person and we got quite close, then said they loved me and i realy beleived it but i think they've lost interest in me
this sounds so over the top and cheesey but when we used to look in each others eyes i realy felt that there was something between us, now its just awkward
That's happened to me before. I'm a shy person so i couldn't tell him i liked him too, he waited for a week for my answer but then i was too shy for him and he moved on. He even asked out my younger sister right in front of me. It hurt like hell. I even sewn up his ripped up shirt which he later said he was gonna throw it away.
Just because someone said they love you in that manner, does not mean that they love you the way you think they do. Love is hard to understand, I am still trying to understand it myself. But see if that person is going to give you the time to get to know them and if they want to spend time with you. Take your time to find out all you can about that person. It also depends on the age of that person, Listen.....think before you act....Use your head .....and most of all take your sweet time. Learn ....listen...watch....dont get in the center of it until you have thought of all that you need to know. It takes time...so use it wisely. Dont get into any hurry, if it is going to happen .....it will......if not, then you are not going to be hurt. Think about your heart. Who knows..the love of your life may be waiting for you tomorrow.
It depends...
If they don't want to date you or be with you at all in public, they better have a REALLY good reason, otherwise they obviously don't really love you.
But maybe they really do love you, and they're just shy or they don't like PDA. There's a lot of factors involved, you kinda just have to use your own judgement.
posted over a year ago
You remind me of a sage. You seem to be very insightful and wise. Especially about all this love crap. :P
i say believe it. the person may just be nervus or scared or something to act like they like you infront of a big croud. and note: if someone says something in a serious mannor its more than likely true
As much as you'd wanna date afterwards, don't cuz she might end up breaking your heart. It's like the song ''Sk8er Boi'' by Avril Lavigne (I don't know if you actually listen to her though), it's to protect an image.
When your in big groups it's usually cuz your popular. But there are rules to being popular. One little mistake and your a total reject. This is exactly what this is about. The girl loves you but is scared to show it to the world since she doesn't really want to become a reject or whatever. She can't admit her true feelings cuz she wants to protect an image.
But honestly, a girl like that doesn't really deserve your love since she's to chicken to admit it without it having an affect on her. It might feel like your in love now, but you'll find someone better. If she agrees though to admit it to her group, then it'll be ok.
So my conclusion is, she didn't lose interest in you, it's just to protect her image.
posted over a year ago
I dunno if it's a girl who said that she loved you or a guy but I mean this in both ways :)
