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im having mixed emotions about my relationship........................(this is kinda long but im going to cut somethings out to make it shorter)

theres alot of thing in my relationship that im having mixed emotions about but i need more help with one thing.............my boyfriend hangs out with other girls more and we barley get to hang out.

ive been dating my boyfriend,were gonna call him rashard, since the last day of school in 6th grade in 2012. In 7th grade, durning this summer in june, I was texting him and i asked him a question then he answerd my question and he brought up something about a girl named Eva that lived near him and he said that she flirts with him alot. I started feeling alil angry about that.Ever since then he texted me alot about her and he tells me how they play video games together, play basketball together, and hang with each other(sometimes they stay over each other house until the middle of the night) and i started getting jealous because.......

we never get to spend time with each other. the only time we spent with each other is when we were at school.......but we barley had time to talk and people were always around us. We use to live in the same city(he moved to atlanta august 28th) but we lived in diffrent neighborhoods that were kinda far away from each other. Our parents wont let us visit each other so we cant see each other at all and the only communication we have is calling or texting.

but back to the eva business.......one day,while were texting each other, Rashard texted me that he was walking eva home and she was trying to convince him that i was a gold digger. i texted him she dont even know me to say im a gold digger. then he texted back that she said that beacause 2 days ago i asked him can he get me a promise ring and some chocolates.....that was my first time ever asking him to buy me something. A few weeks after that rashard texted me that him and eva were playing 20 questions and she was asking questions about me and i asked him what is she saying and then he texted back that she asked him will he ever break up with me and go with her and he said that h
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DarkCruz360 posted over a year ago
 LilMissTinkey posted over a year ago
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Well it sounds like you are both a little young to be concerned about settling down, but unfortunately some take relationships more serious than others. So you kinda have to understand that some people (at this time) are not as committed as you, and sometimes that just IS the case, sadly. That does NOT mean that it is right or "right for you."

She is there and you aren't. She may be a weasel/sneaky-snake & he enjoys spending time with her, but does he feel the same as her? and have feelings? or are his feelings true for you and that trust will be tested now. It will test your jealousy level and how you deal with it. It will test your trust in him and IF he DESERVES it.

Just because he is hanging out does not mean he has the same feelings for her as he does you. What you may want to find out is what aspects may appeal to him that she has that you may not. BUT that does not mean you do not have what he wants or desires. It is just part of questions to see if the difference is in different qualities or just distance.

He needs to know your feelings are affected and show respect. Good Luck. I hope he understands and can help you understand and be honest.

Sometimes guys are insensitive. I would ask him all you need to know NOW and not allow yourself to be used or mistreated or walked on. If she is purely a friend then he must handle this-hopefully.
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Well it sounds like you are both a little young to be concerned about settling down, but unfortunately some take relationships more serious than others. So you kinda have to understand that some people (at this time) are not as committed as you, and sometimes that just IS the case, sadly. That does NOT mean that it is right or "right for you." She is there and you aren't. She may be a weasel/sneaky-snake & he enjoys spending time with her, but does he feel the same as her? and have feelings? or are his feelings true for you and that trust will be tested now. It will test your jealousy level and how you deal with it. It will test your trust in him and IF he DESERVES it. Just because he is hanging out does not mean he has the same feelings for her as he does you. What you may want to find out is what aspects may appeal to him that she has that you may not. BUT that does not mean you do not have what he wants or desires. It is just part of questions to see if the difference is in different qualities or just distance. He needs to know your feelings are affected and show respect. Good Luck. I hope he understands and can help you understand and be honest. Sometimes guys are insensitive. I would ask him all you need to know NOW and not allow yourself to be used or mistreated or walked on. If she is purely a friend then he must handle this-hopefully.
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DarkCruz360 said:
I think you should tell him how your feeling cause what he is doing is not respectful to you and your relationship. Now he needs to know NOW and you can tell him he shouldn't be around him or he needs to understand who is he with right now. He needs respect you and your relationship plus he really needs to understand that.

Now if he doesn't then he is not for you and I would not be sad about buy yes I know where will you be heading at but keep your chin up and enjoy your LIFE. He needs to tell you his feelings so that is all but remember what I said also what Sinna Hime said (above me).
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karolinak1999 said:
Similar situation here...loosing contact with a guy...my advice to you is end it with him maybe stay friends....
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