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So there is this guy I like a lot and he calls me pretty all the time and we video chat on Skype every day but he lives in Texas and has a girlfriend, but I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know if its such a good idea, help?

 Otaku_Girl4890 posted over a year ago
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Sweetie, I do not think it is good he is doing that. They say if they will do those things to their girlfriends then they will do it to you.

I would not be skyping someone elses boyfriend, whether I know them or not. I am not trying to preach or sound better than - I have done a lot of things I am not proud of and I say things through experience.

Even if the guy seriously likes you.... see you really should not come between him and his current relationship. It isn't right. You would not want some girl to do that to you when really it is his place to break up with her if he isn't as committed and stuff. Don't tell him in hopes he will break up! That is sabatoge and if they were not that close then it is still selfish. You should always stay away from guys WITH a girlfriend and pick ones without! ALWAYS. Not only Karma and bad timing and not decent BUT YOU will be the one to get hurt. I would bet money on it if I bet.

I am sorry... maybe he'll handle it or you can tell him if he was single it might be different. I would not ever encourage a relationship to start out this way. A man-stealer is not a good thing & I would not want to be that. There are hard feelings and other things...
it is also a good way to get yourself a broken heart.

-just my opinion
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Sweetie, I do not think it is good he is doing that. They say if they will do those things to their girlfriends then they will do it to you. 

I would not be skyping someone elses boyfriend, whether I know them or not. I am not trying to preach or sound better than - I have done a lot of things I am not proud of and I say things through experience.

Even if the guy seriously likes you.... see you really should not come between him and his current relationship. It isn't right. You would not want some girl to do that to you when really it is his place to break up with her if he isn't as committed and stuff. Don't tell him in hopes he will break up! That is sabatoge and if they were not that close then it is still selfish. You should always stay away from guys WITH a girlfriend and pick ones without! ALWAYS. Not only Karma and bad timing and not decent BUT YOU will be the one to get hurt. I would bet money on it if I bet.

I am sorry... maybe he'll handle it or you can tell him if he was single it might be different. I would not ever encourage a relationship to start out this way. A man-stealer is not a good thing & I would not want to be that. There are hard feelings and other things...
it is also a good way to get yourself a broken heart.

-just my opinion
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Thank you :) Being friends with him wouldn't hurt though, right?
Otaku_Girl4890 posted over a year ago
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Sure, friendships are great.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
loulovesel said:
well, if he lives in Texas and you live someone where else and he has a girlfriend. There's basically no shot of you dating him. Not meaning to be harsh, but if you can handle a long distance relationship behind another girl's back, whatever be my guest. But if you hardly know the guy and haven't seen him, don't bother. K?
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