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Okay so one of my closest friends went to a different school then me for junior high. However she still lives down the street from me and is still next door neighbors with her long time crush (for privacies sake I will use fake names) Bob. She ( fake name Jane) never once said it but it was assumed that she had dibs on him. But because Jane doesn't go to the same school as me and Bob, she doesn't know what happens at our school. And if she did, she would know that Bob has been flirting with me in class for the past few weeks. My other friends at my school are noticing this and telling me to to out with him. However from my recent visit with Jane I know that she is planning to ask him out soon. However I somewhat like him more than I friend now. What should I do about this?
 itsjustamonster posted over a year ago
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foreveraMJJFan said:
ive been in this situation similar to this. I understand how hard it is when you like a guy and your best friend likes him too. From experience I would tell you to sit down and think, how much you truly care about your friend. If you really truly care about her and don't want to lose her as a friend I would not ask him out because she did however like him first. I wasn't as lucky in my situation I ended up losing a friend because I liked a guy she also liked. if you don't want to lose her as a friend don't do it.
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Thank you for your advise, it really helps :)
itsjustamonster posted over a year ago
Catherine51197 said:
My suggestion is try not to get to emotionally attached to him because you're going to be really hurt if he starts going out with your best friend, & if your friend ends up upset because he turns her down, stick up for her by chatting to him about it. If all else fails & your friendships end up ruined, talk to 1 of you parents or another trusted adult who can help this situation.
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Thank you I will try to do just that :)
itsjustamonster posted over a year ago
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good luck, hope everything works out ok :).
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emerald_32 said:
First you need to answer the most important question of all: Which matters most to you, love or friendship?

For me, the best thing to do is to ask Jane if she is okay with this. If she says yes, that means that she values your friendship more than having a crush on Bob. If she says no, it means that Bob means more to her. It's your choice. You can ask help to a counselor, a close friend or your parents.
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