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LifeAsC said:
I'm actually in the same situation, and it really hurts, I get it. My crush is annoyed by me too, and the biggest mistake you could make is pushing those bounderies. The advice "there are other fish in the sea" irritates me - because how can a person like you if the both of you haven't even gotten to know each other? So, here's my whole hearted advice:
Give him space. Let him know that you are your own person and that he isn't a huge significance involved in your life. Don't bother to let him drag you down, that'll just cause him to be even more annoyed, and you to be even more obsessed with the idea of the two of you together. However, whenever he sees you, make eye contact. Short but not too short, keep the contact for about 2-3 seconds and look away with a small smile (that's pretty much a given though). He'll know that you're interested, but just don't harass him with it. If being "annoying" is a trait of yours, embrace it. It's a flaw that many people have and struggle with, but if your crush actually gets to know you, and sees your good qualities, he may start to actually like you...and by that time he'll accept you for who you are. But if he finally gets to know you, and still doesn't like you for who you are, he's not worth anymore of your time. (That's and IF though)
General advice: just get to know him, let a bit of time pass to clear the tension between the two of you. However, keep sending signals that you're still interested, for example eye contact. (Also, think before you act upon your words when you speak to him.)
I really hope it works out, but if not, just remember that the situation is what you make of it. Move on, improve yourself and live to your potential as a valued human being. Don't let one "crush" hurt you, turn it into a lesson and know that one day there will be someone willing to love you, flaws and all.
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