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what should i do??? pls do help me.... its too painfull pls......

i love a guy for past 6 years at the same time that guy luvs my best frd for the past 6 yrs i knw it from the start that they were dating each other but still i liked him but i tried to hid my feelings but i failed everyone came to know that i like him after some days they broke the reason was becoz there parents found out but the guy still liked her but my best frd was totally over him i tried to explain it to him but instead he mistook me that am trying to break them and this misuderstanding still continues i have not talked to him past 5 years becoz of my pride but i cant forget him at first i thought its becoz he is my first luv and since we r in sam school and same class i got to see him often thats y i cant forget him but now am in collage but still i cant forget him i hav no contacts with him nor do i meet him but still i miss him.... to forget him i tried to fall in luv again i tried it for three times the first 2 were just lik me they were not serious but the third one got serious but no matter wat i try i could not fall for him soo i broke his hreat for doing so i curse my self but i could not help it out.............. i want to forget my first love and start a fresh life.... pls do suggest some methods so that i can forget him pls...
 prity10 posted over a year ago
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laylabieber said:
well the same thing happened 2 me but i surely got over it.. just let urself b loved n cherished,b happy, always smile. You know something??? u can only b happy n 4get bout some1 if ur loved.. try it

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princetonwife50 said:
Well wat i do is just spend time with the person im wit now or sum friends to let everything in mhy head just go away i dont think about anything else i also just write little poems of how i am really feeling and just let everything off mhy chest but dont worry yuh will get through this
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Brenda11 said:
Same here but find a guy that s amazingly awesome and super duper cute
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sjae34 said:
Look you can try things but if you really love him then you will struggle to forget him. No ones asking you to forget him, you just have keep your head up high. The first crush is the one you will never forget but you will find the one guy out there for you and everything will work out fine! :)
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
You can try all the suggestions in the world, but the bottomline is that you will either eventually have to REALLY deal with it~ or it will deal with you (and eat your lunch, like it sounds like it is now). You may let it slip out of your concious mind for awhile, replace it, try, but I find that things return, sometimes with a vengence, until we really deal with whatever it is bothering us inside & you do not want things to colour future relationships or carry baggage into ANY relationship, right? I find that all such worthwhile endeavors begin with me praying about it. I may pray a lot and for a long time. I think God gives me 3 answers: "Yes," "No" and "Wait." Maybe you could write the guy a letter~ even if you do not ever send it.

I do not believe I can ever-ever force "my" will to be done or happen, and I am MISERABLE if I try. I also know I have to acknowledge my feelings and my sadness, grief and pain, so I can walk through it and get onto the other side.

I think this sounds very muddled.
Maybe you just need clarificatin and closure?
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writer67 said:
looks like you have some things to do. the easiest is to write a letter, but u have to move on. mayb one day he will find out the truth. but he was very upset many years ago, when he thought all wanted them to break up, so he tends to have thought even you are against him, so he has shut u out for the past few years. after ur letter u best move forward, for living in the past isnt healthy for the soul. everything happens for a reason, even first loves.let him know u still want to keep in touch ,even if its just pen pals, only. but let yourself off the hook, and forgive urself first,but u need to let progress help move u forward towards a future from this present. good luck in moving on ;-]
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Rock-n-Rollin said:
Just try 2 ignore him! Its just a waste of time 2 cry over a boy who doesn't even love you! Their are plenty of other fishes in the sea girl!
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am try 2 ingnore him for the past 6 yrs and now hes no were to see and abt other fishes they dont int me eventually i brk with them in less than 2 months
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