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Is it worth the pain? He's in love with my girlfriend,He told her and he knows that she's dating me. I've noticed that she shows more affection to me when he isn't around, but when he is around which is more often than not it feels like I go unnoticed

Is it worth the pain? He's in love with my girlfriend, He told her and he knows that she's dating me. I've noticed that she shows more affection to me when he isn't around, but when he is around which is more often than not it feels like I go unnoticed or at least second best, honestly it appears as though they're the couple rather than me and her. I don't want to bring it up in fear of losing her and I keep telling myself that this pain that I feel almost on a daily basis isn't worth losing her over, but the cold honest truth is that it's eating away at me and it hurts bad, I know that may seem a little over-dramatic but it really, I just don't know how much longer I can deal with this ... any advice?
 AJ91 posted over a year ago
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iliveingallifey said:
this happend with me and my ex but im the gf who was chrushing on ok i know wat shes doing. she knows that he likes her and whn hes around and you she probaly dont want the guy who likes her to feel sad the you got her and he dont if she really loved him she would of dumped you for him it looks like she hasent. just tell her how you feel about this boy who likes her
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Katherine-P said:
Confront her! Asks her if she has feelings for him or not. If she don´t than you have to talk with this guy. If she have feelings you have to let her choose! I hope i can help you :)
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Thanks, I appreciate that. When he first told her that he was in love with her, she reassured me that I was the one she wanted to be with and I was alright with it because I trusted her and I do trust her. It is really tough though. Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it :)
AJ91 posted over a year ago
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no problam. thabk you for appreciate :)
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dramaqueen189 said:
i think u should talk to her about this bbut is he like you brothe a.k.a best buds confrunt her my bestie has a boyy friend and i would never do so such thing i would set down with both of then because you need to know the truth!
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i think u should talk to her about this bbut is he like you brothe a.k.a best buds confrunt her my bestie has a boyy friend and i would never do so such thing i would set down with both of then because you need to know the truth!
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