Help! There is a guy who really really likes me, but i don't feel the exact same way about him

I've had the same problem with a guy too. We were friends for quite some time and had a lot of fun. Then one night on a party I was flirting with his best friend, and he was flirting back. Later that evening I heard that my friend asked his best friend not to kiss me that evening. I immediately knew why. My friends told me to ignore him, but I went to talk to him. I was very honest with him. I told him he was a great guy and I knew he'd find someone, but I just didn't like him that way. I could tell he didn't really like it, but later he told me that he really appreciated my honesty. Of course I left his best friend alone for the rest of the evening, I didn't want to upset him even more. A few weeks later he told me he was ok with me and his best friend going out, so we did for a while.

No matter what you do, he's not going to like it. It sucks, but it's true. The only thing you can do to help him is to be completely honest with him. It will probably be hard on him for a while, but he'll get over it. Don't go on making him believe you feel the same, that will only hurt him more.

Good luck!

It's like a love triangle . He like u , but you like the other guy . U should talk to the other guy that likes u , before something happens , since u like someone eles . Just tell him u want to be his friend .

I had the same problem alright there is this total loser named brandon he has been in love with me since 2 be grade he is a freaking stalker he knows my phone # my address my screennames he has shown up to my house uninvited and he has harraesed my friends . so I just ignore I'm and he kinds stopebut in ur care it sounds like ur friends I'd just tell him like how jake and bella from twilight did it just be honest tell him it would be weird cuz u love him like a brother and ur not in love with him..

Well if you like him as a FRIEND, than you need to first make SURE that he likes you or that would be awkward. If he does, just sit him down and tell him that you don't like him, easily. Thats all i can really help with. sorry

tell the guy that likes alot that i sorry idont like you like that so... can we be friends

got the same problem right now buttt noooooo it carnt just be one guy it has to be 8!!!!! i mean really i have fun with them all tehe XD i little too much fun with them but still i stopped that hmm..... last night!! when i started going out with someone but they wont quit,

think i may need a queastion of ma own.

oh yeah advise XD well do wha i do tell them there sweet and everything but ur aint got the same feelings you like him as a friend but it would be hard to let that freindship go summmat like that should do.

god im so smat jk jk jk lol XD
well hope it all goes well :)

This happened to me too. It was one of my good friends. I had known that he liked me, but I was hoping he would find someone else. But he didn't. He asked me out, and I felt horrible turning him down, but you don't want to be caught up in an unreal relationship. I might have said yes if I hadn't known him, but since I knew him, I knew I could never like him as anything more than a friend.

So it sounds like the guy who likes you is also a friend. He may come forward and ask you out, in which case you have a choice to make. You can accept, which is a perfectly fine choice, especially if you don't really know him that well. It gives you a chance to know him better, and you may even become interested in him. You could turn him down, which is also a fine choice. You don't want to be leading him on if you already know that you don't really like him like that, and that there really isn't a chance of you changing your mind. So it all really depends on how well you know him. If you know him well and you know you could never like him as more than a friend, then I'd say to turn him down, but be gentle about it. If you don't really know him that well, or if there is a chance of you changing your mind, then you could give him a chance.

I hope I helped :) Good luck!