Is this..Er..Normal?

Dude, I've never been in a relationship before either and I do that all the time. Its perfectly normal, and its actually quite a comfort. I know how you feel & your not alone (:

To begin with: Absolutely understand where you are coming from (so to speak).

This is one of those (odd) situations where something is perfectly normal (as in You Are Not Alone) but at the same time DON'T ENCOURAGE IT.

I'm glad you're thinking about what you want in a partner BUT REMEMBER WHAT YOU ARE REALLY ABSOLUTELY SEEKING IS INNER CHARACTER/QUALITY. Literally, one can change a haircolour but one can't change WHO THE PERSON IS INSIDE. And it is WHAT YOUR PARTNER IS INSIDE that MATTERS. MATTERS MATTERS MATTERS.

Imagine this: Take your profile and ask yourself "If we were both trapped in a burning building, how would my partner react? How would I want them to react?" THINK ABOUT THIS. That's what I mean by inner character. No matter what colour your partner's hair, do you really want to be with someone who tramples you down running for the exit themselves?

The problem with having such a detailed profile of 'Who I want as an Ideal Partner' is that it NEVER takes character properly into account. Much easier to match hair, height, weight etc than to match character. PLEASE BE CAREFUL - careful that you don't 'fall for precisely the profile' when the real love of your life is right next to you. The person who has the 'wrong' colour hair but precisely the RIGHT CHARACTER (OR IF YOU PREFER, THE RIGHT HEART) to be your Special Other.

And believe me, THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST DIFFICULT THINGS TO UNDERSTAND, MUCH LESS ACCEPT.

no its not that weird. a future has to be thought of at least in tought for its where your going to spend your restof your life. no harm its wat you want and wat you like, and some will come close to the mark, best way to be happy is to hopefully have plan a b +c. to be organised prepared, is like creating your perfect partner, who knows , he may have one too, that u can exchange at wedding, we all have a dream, some remember, and write, some forget and dayream hoping to remember, some invent,and many give up and take what is on offer or what is interesting. but u have created and fate has put him in front of u. wow, i wonder how close percentage u got to the target. good on ya have fun;-]

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