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(I think) I'm in love!

I'm on summer vacation right now, and I'm really starting to miss the person I like. I don't seem to miss my friends, just him, and I'm starting to think I might love him. I know it's wrong, but he has a girlfriend, and I still like him. People have told me to back off and don't wait for him to get single, or to tell him how I feel, or that I'm a total jerk for trying to break up a perfectly good relashionship (which I'm not!). He's a really comitted person, and for some reason, I keep thinking his girlfriend will break up with him soon, and I want to be there for him if she does, but I'm so confused! Everything on summer vacation reminds me of him, cars, houses, trees.... Please help!
 Spottedleaf13 posted over a year ago
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xenriquegrl said:
If this is gonna drive you crazy like that, then yeah, you're in love!

I know it can be hard for you but I'm just gonna start by saying that you should enjoy ur summer.

You should tell him how you feel. Just simply tell him. Don't say stuff like ''I could be better than your girlfriend'' or stuff like that. Don't mention his girlfriend. Don't even pay attention to his girlfriend. Just say a plain simple ''I love you'', breathe and don't add much after that. He's gonna fall for you if you really beleive and don't give up hope. It might take a while but don't give up!

And also, ignore other people's stupid comments. This is your life. And don't let them make you feel guilty like that. Ur worth more than that! Just let them tell you that ur a jerk and don't let it get to you. People can say what they wanna say but just don't let it affect you.

As for summer, after you tell him or whatever, try to enjoy it. School's out!!!! Do stuff you love to get your mind off of him for a little while, it will do you some good!!!:)
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thanks alot! it really helps!
Spottedleaf13 posted over a year ago
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Ur welcome!!!!
xenriquegrl posted over a year ago
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I'm honored:)!!!
xenriquegrl posted over a year ago
141516 said:
I NO HOW U FEEL GIRL I WAS IS IN LOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND BUT HE HAD A GF SO I WANTED HIM HAPPY SO I NEVER TOLD HIM WHEN THE DANCE CAME AROUND LOTS OF GUYS ASKED ME OUT I SAID NO CUZ I LIKED MY BEST FRIEND SO I DID NOT GO TO THE DANCE WELL ABOUT A HOUR AFTER THE DANCE STARTED I GOT A KNOCK AT THE DOOR SO I OPEND IT AND THERE HE WAS HE SAID WHY ARNT U AT THE DANCE I SAID NO ONE I WANTED TO GO WITH HE SMILED AND SAID THATS TO BAD CUZ I WANT TO GO WITH U SO THE POINT IS JUST STAY COOL AND U NEVER NO HE MIGHT LIKE U BACK
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thanks
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MissO1116 said:
Just cool down. You probably should just wait, but that does not mean you should not mingle. See if there is someone else.
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ok. thanks!
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laura071197 said:
if you really like him you should wait for him, theres nothing else you can do, your time will come, until that happend stay single, your big chance can be really close.
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thank you!!!
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skytail127 said:
ok, well, for one be carful useing tha=e word love. that just sounds like an everyday crush. there is nothing wrong with that, and that doesnt make it unimportant.

if he has a gf there is not much you can do. whatever ypu do, dont try and break up him and his gf. that is a crappy thing to do and wont get you anywhere. and dont try and makea a move on him. now is not the time to tell him how you feel, he is in a relationship and you need to respect that.

that relationship wont last forever, its highschool. i suggest befriending him, but not becomeing to close or it may get acward wen your chance comes. just talk to him and be there for him and wait till him and his gf break up, dont interfere, though. and hide how you feel well.

when they do break up be understanding and wait till he seems ready to move on. then you can tell him how you feel. you will get your chance. good luck.

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u guys confuse me
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