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Does this guy like me?

I've never spoken to him person to person but he went my school and I always see him around but we've never spoken before in person. I speak to him on facebook nearly everyday and he said to me. I really love talking to you and do you fancy going somewhere this summer? so I think he's trying to go out with me. This guy helped me with all my problems in my last relationship. My ex hurt me BADLY and he was the only person that was ever there for me when I was sad, I really like him, as a friend but I feel he wants to be with me and I just don't feel the same. But he's a lovely guy, I don't want to hurt him :(
 RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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xenriquegrl said:
You should keep hangin' around him. Don't bring up the fact that he might like you. Don't talk to him about it (unless u really one day want to be his girlfriend) and you'll be ok.

If he starts talking to you about it though and he really admits his true feelings for you and you still feel like you should only be a friend, explain to him calmly that your not ready to have a relationship with him at the moment but that u still want to be friends. Who knows, maybe you'll change your mind about him! Idk, who knows what could happen. Just don't bring the subject up. But honestly, it wouldn't hurt to just go out on one ''friendly'' date with him:)

And if you ever feel like u should talk about this crush thing he probably has on you, don't forget to write!!
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posted over a year ago 
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No I'll never like him more than a friend for sure. I'm not physically attracted to him AT ALL and I know it seems shallow but I have to be attracted to someone to be with them
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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Sometimes u gotta see a person for what he has on the inside. It's just a thought, but do whatever you want:)
xenriquegrl posted over a year ago
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I know, but he's REALLY not my type! I won't go out with him for sure lol
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
venant said:
for me if you realy feel like he feels for you more that freindship love...
you should talk to him.. as him what he feels for you..
cuz it would hurt him, if he lets his love grow and that you don't feel a thing for him...

on the other hand, if you let him go, you won't maybe ever find a guy like him, and an other girl would have the luck to have a nice guy...

so even if you don't like him more that freinds think about it... are you ready to let a guy like him go...?

for me the best person to love, is you freind, cuz he has an will always be there for you no matter what...

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posted over a year ago 
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I'll always like him as just a friend, i'll never have feelings for him.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
skytail127 said:
well, for one. you might want to try talking to this amazing friend if yours in person. make sure you realy are talking to him and not some creeper pretending to be him.
dont bring it up though, you may have been mistaken. just act normal and if he brings it up again, make sure he is asking you on a date and not just as friends. and tell him you want to stay just friends.
if he does ask you out directly, you may want to consiter it. he sounds like a realy great guy and who knows he may suprise you. you may find out that you like him that way too. and you dont want to lose a guy like this.
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