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okay umm this is kinda long, but umm yea.. thers this guy who likes me right and im finally told that he likes me, but i didnt feel the same way but you know i thought he was ovver me but he dated my best friend and finally i kinda feel the same way,(like you know when someone likes you and you dont like them back but you know that person likes you and you start to grow feeling for that person, thats whats happening here) but hes still going out with my best friend but i tell him i like him and he still feels the same way, so after a while my freind fights with him and me just because i hang out with him sometimes, and she gets jealous because she knew he likes me and started telling me stuff and they both get into fights sometimes over me, so she breaks up with him and he asks me out so i say yes and my friend finds out, and give me these guilty threats so i break up with him the next day , and i tell him becasue shes giving suidice thoughts and i dont wana hurt myself again* but know i think i wana get back together with him.... shud i????
 PuNkRoCk123 posted over a year ago
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Jillywinkles said:
Do you understand it from your friend's point of view though? You'd said you didn't want him, and she did, and once she had him you take him from her. She feels betrayed by you, and probably insecure that her boyfriend doesn't really like her.

In all honesty you shouldn't have told him how you felt when he was with her, it was kind of stealing.

All you can do at this point is pick one, your friend or your guy. What I'd do is this: go to your friend first, find a good time to talk with her and appologize, say how you feel, and say that you want to make up with her. It's a mess but if you can make up with your friend, it will be better. If you guys are on good terms, maybe with time she can forgive you enough to let you go out with him.
You can do that, or you can pick the guy instead and go with him. It just depends on how much you care for either person. Unless she can forgive you, you may not be able to have both.

But basically the situation is that you both like the same guy, so it's hard for people not to get hurt.
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scogburn said:
It's IMPORTANT that you do not ever have suicidal thoughts over a relationship. If you are, find someone you can trust to talk to about this.

It's sticky when you like the same guy as a friend. You're going to have to decide who means more to you and how long have you and this girl been friends? If a long time, you might not want to lose her. Sometimes, your girlfriends will stick by you when guys won't. If she can forgive you and put it behind both of you, then you can move forward in your friendship, but I don't think you two need to like the same guy.
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