Is it always the guy that makes the first move? Vecause if so I am In a very bad situation.

Don't be silly, Takuya. Guys do NOT always make the first move, in fact, women often DO make the first move. And your not a coward, it's alright if you just don't want to get hurt.

There is ALWAYS a chance if they girl likes you, you will sense the signs and that may give you the initiative to "make the first move", or she will ask you herself.

I suggest if you DO want to make the first move, just hold your breath close your eyes, and try to get the words out. If not, take her hands and say something like, "I'm not really good at this but... would you like to ... etc." She may get where your coming from and just make it easy for you.

But either way, there IS ALWAYS a chance, and for a guy as nice as you (for people who read this, I do actually know him), trust me, you'll be fine :)

No,its not true.girls can make the first move too and know matter what happens u must not give up on who you love.it doesnt matter that person loves u back or not.always be side by side when that person need u the most

guys dont always have to make the irst move but like some girls perfer it. if your a girl you can make the first move but you dont have to. if you are a guy you dont have to but if you like her you can if they have suddle hints like looking down @ ur shoes when they talk to you, twirling their hair, giggleing, studdering etc. than they most likely like you. if you really like her/ him than you should ask them but you dont have to :) good luck!

dont be a puppet ,pull your own strings , be a independent someone worthy to have an opinion. make your own rules , aloow them to be equal, your life, first second third, smile, be different, break your own heart, it will mend, give it to another to break aint much fun,be you, up up and away/* enjoy life learn quick , roll the dice and take a chance;-]

Hmmm I don't think the guy should always make the first move but if she's shy as well then the might have to or he could lose out on a wonderful relationship just take a deep breath and go for it :)