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Karthigesh said:
You can make the first move if you want, start by just talking and getting to know him first, ask him about his likes and dislikes and also whether or not you 2 share things in common. If the both of you are already friends or somehow know each other then you can bypass this stage and go to the next one.
I suggest asking him out but not with the both of you first, ask him out with a group of friends, but when you are out, take some time to talk to him and let him see you in a more social sense. After this, then ask him out one-on-one, but keep it casual, nothing too fancy. A movie or a dinner would work just fine, take him somewhere you like, that way you can be the one taking charge and you can tell him what to order and such. The big part of any date, is nerves, from both him and you, so bringing him somewhere familiar to you will help to ease this part.
Do this a few times, then start to open up to him, tell him about your feelings, this part is crucial because it will allow you to see if he really likes you or does he just have a mere crush on you. If he opens up to you and shares as well, then that shows that he trusts you and sees you as someone he can talk to and confide in. Once this is done, let him know how you feel.
I can tell he might be shy and hesitant but if you feel that he is someone you can see being with then take the chance. Sometimes people come out of their shell when another person brings them out of it. He may be a shy person now but underneath all that he could be a charming, hopeless romantic who will devote himself to you :)
All the best and may love guide you....
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