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i went out wit a guy and he broke up wit me but i still love him and we're still friends but he keeps flirting wit me!!! wat can i do????!

 love_aston123 posted over a year ago
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Karthigesh said:
If he broke up with you then clearly he does not appreciate you enough to love you the way you deserve to be. This feeling of love you have now, are repressed feelings that are there because of the break-up that happened.

Now, as a guy, I've seen plenty of guys break up with girls then end up flirting with them because truthfully they don't want the relationship, they just want to fool around and flirt. But this is not good at all because it places the girl in an awkward state like how you are feeling right now and these feelings, need to be removed and the only way you can do that is time.

I suggest talking to him and telling him how uncomfortable it makes you. It was his loss to lose you in the first place and you have to take this chance to show him that you, as a girl, deserves much better than to be treated this way. In order for you to move on, you have to confront him and tell him that either we remain friends but stop all the flirting or just not see each other at all.

He has to see that he has hurt you and that what he is doing right now, is not respecting you one bit and it will only affect you further if he doesn't stop.

You have to take a stand, draw a line and tell him that you do not want this, and that you deserve someone who would love you, respect you, and not treat you like a "thing" that is just there to be flirted with.
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Wow, that was very well said.
TruBerries posted over a year ago
pinkfluby114558 said:
If i where you id ask him streight up "Do you still like me because i like you..." but you might not have that kinda confidence...But if you still like him than its worth a shot! It also depends on why you broke up. If it was somthing like he cheeted on you than you probably dont wanna go down that road again. But if it was somthing like it was an agreement between the two of you than it could have been the wrong thing to do. But i think if he didnt hurt you too bad when you two broke up I think you two should try again. Sometimes coupples break up for the wrong reasons and theyre sposta be together still. I mean like...If hes flirting with you than he obvusly likes you still...So ask him out. make the first move. If you like him its totally worth it. Good luck!
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Gypsi_Rose said:
It depends why he broke up with you? What was the reason? :L x
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he broke up with me so he could go out with my frenemy!
love_aston123 posted over a year ago
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