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should i stay with a guy who has both broken my heart but is now willing to mend it? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

Kyle was a great guy untill he told me "i cant ever be with you. its just to hard" and now he is saying that he had to say that because he needed time to think but now he relized that he really wants me and that he says " i want you baby, i need you, i want to hold you, please come back to me." i really like him and he means so much to me. i am just not sure if i can handle him breaking m heart again. i need help people so please answer this a.s.a.p. i want guys and girls opinions. thanks helpful fanpop


p.s. i and 15 and he is 17. is that weird?

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no am 13 an my bf 15 is not wierd
ljsb posted over a year ago
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my ex wuz 16
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Justdoit074 said:
Hi!The most important is do you believe him?Think about what did he do for you,did he make you smile?And maybe there was something wrong happend so he must broken your heart.But now is fine,he wants you and he means so much to you.I think you should stay with him.You love him and he loves you,that's enough for a real love.Girl,just give him a chance,you can try or you'll repent.He was thinking so now he's sure.I think boy dont wanna broken heart of a girl so much.If he's bad boy,they'll try at many different girls.What r u afraid of?Just remember:Try or forever stay in repent.Maybe there'll be somethings not good happen but you try your best and you're cute to be his gf,if he's trying to break your heart,it's his fault and he'll not good enough for you.Try it girl and by the words your wrote,i think he's good for you
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Jillywinkles said:
Why was it too hard for him to be with you? What was the reason?

And about the ago difference, it's definitely NOT weird, two years is nothing. Maturity is not about age; you could easily be as mature or more mature than him. What matters is not the number but the personalities, and whether you two fit well together or not.
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he said he needed space and that he couldnt deal with me any more. he said he could talk to me or see me with out feeling over whelmed and that he had to say the right thing at the right time. i just want to be himself.
greeneyedvamp posted over a year ago
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wow ok, so that sounds not like he had a problem with you, but that he wasn't ready for a relationship yet. Maybe he's grown now. I'd give him a second chance. Maybe take it slow at first, give him space and try not to be needy or anything. But if he starts to feel pressured again, there's not much you can do. It's something he has to get over himself.
Jillywinkles posted over a year ago
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thanks for the help. i mean we had this great relationship one day and the next he said he needed a break and then some one told him i had a boyfriend and some one told me he had a girl friend and it got really crazy. he gets jell easily. thats some thing that makes me a bit uncomfortable because he was always saying "if any one hurts you i will kick his ass" but i am not in to violence.
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cuteinblack6 said:
No WAy that is not weird! im 15 and my boyfriend is 17. anyways i think that he liked a girl but he was dating u. than he broke up with u to go to the girl that he liked. but the girl didnt accept him so now hes coming to u. DONT GO OUT WITH HIM! HES A JERK!
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