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Can I do that?

If a guy's main goal is sex, and you keep rejecting him, but keep flirting with him, can I make him love me instead of the other thing? Or should I get away from him as far as possible?
 Chaann94 posted over a year ago
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Yell-0 said:
This is difficult for me to answer, but I think you may be able to make him love you. If all he wants is sex, and the attitude doesn't stop, then go towards one who respects you and doesn't want sex, or frequently wants sex. Sorry if it doesn't help!
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posted over a year ago 
Goldilottes said:
If you love him, stay with him. if you arent ready to go all the way yet, say so. but maybe compromise by saying you will still do the flirting & making out and stuff, thats what most ppl do. tell him you will be ready for it one day, but right now he just needs to respect your wishes.
if he leaves because he cant have the sex he wants, then hes not worth your time.
if he is genuine, compromises and waits then he probably loves you.
you need to talk and how he reacts.
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posted over a year ago 
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that's better then what I got. lol. it's a good response. :)
Yell-0 posted over a year ago
vanillaicecream said:
Frankly, I don't think you will be able to make him love you. How can you make someone love you? I think it is impossible.(I ,of course, am not aware of your powers) You can't turn his feelings on, you can make him want you or whatever..but love...it is different! Honestly, no!If his goal is sex, he will try to achieve this goal ( maybe by telling you that he really is inlove with you)
So, Chaann94, it is up to you to decide - be careful!

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[i] Frankly, I don't think you will be able to make  him love you. How can you make someone love you? I think it is impossible.(I ,of course, am not aware of your powers)  You can't turn his feelings on, you can make him want you or whatever..but love...it is different! Honestly, no!If his goal is sex, he will try to achieve this goal ( maybe by telling you that he really is inlove with you)  
So, Chaann94, it is up to you to decide - be careful! [/i]
posted over a year ago 
NCISLuver524 said:
Okay, heres the thing.......DOn't keep holding on. He will cheat on you because you won't sleep with him. And take it from me, IT HURTS. I never wanted to talk to him agian after I got cheated on, and lets just say he never stepped all over me agian. Thats the misconception, you will think he will change, and HE NEVER WILL.
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posted over a year ago 
2dolphn97 said:
child. if he just wants sex i would say to him ur a dirty man sl** and that if u want a sex buddy go pay for one cuz i am sooooooo not gonna sleep w/ u just for sleeping. I AM BETTER THAN THIS!.... thats what i would say..... ask him if u dont want to have sex what will he do if he says dump u than say fu** u o wait dont u wish that? lol than walk away and he'll b like ....... hehe
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posted over a year ago 
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yeah... this might not make sense... it kinda doesnt for me...so.....yeah
2dolphn97 posted over a year ago
swiddlewiddle said:
"Or should I get away from him as far as possible?"
YEP, DO THIS^^
You're gonna find someone you'll deserve, you're not a sex toy!
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