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Should I just dump my boyfriend?

Here are signs why I think I should dump him.
1. We don't spend any time together anymore.
2. We don't really communicate/talk much anymore
3. He'll pay more attention to his friends than he does with me.
4. He makes me want to throw up when I look at him.
5. I don't get butterflies in my stomach when I look at him anymore, I get like a horrible burning feeling of hate instead.
6. He flirts with other girls on facebook and in person.
7. He NEVER calls/texts me.
8. He only says love you to me now not "I love you" like he used to say.
9. He doesn't look at me the way he did anymore.
10. He used to say how beautiful I am and he doesn't say that anymore.
11. And finally, I'm really unhappy.
This relationship should end, shouldn't it?


 RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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Eline_K said:
If you're trying to convince me, it seems you've already convinced yourself.
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posted over a year ago 
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So do you think it should end?
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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Well, this relationship doesn't make you happy any more. In fact, it makes you unhappy. That alone could be reason enough. You seem to have made up your mind, you just want other peoples reassurance. This is YOUR decision, it shouldn't matter what others think of it.
Eline_K posted over a year ago
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Just go with what your hart tells you to do! Good luck with it! X
Eline_K posted over a year ago
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I agree with Eline_K too
klarissa03 posted over a year ago
swiddlewiddle said:
You need only #11 to dump him! Sometimes sparks just... stop flying. Good Luck!
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posted over a year ago 
Goldilottes said:
Sorry its long.
:'( i feel really bad for you, but yeah if youre trying to convice us maybe you have already convinced yourself..
you could consider getting advice from your close friends who know him, and maybe you could go to his friends to see what you can get out of them, whether he has told them anthing.
Then, you should write down all the reasons you still love him and want to be with him, no matter how small, and all the reasons you don't.
think how would you feel if you saw him kissing another girl. be honest with yourself.

Then, armed with all this information and hopefully a clear head, the most important thing is you need to have a serious talk with him about the whole situation. there's definitely some problems with your realtionship- 4 is the big one.
why does he make you feel these ways? has he cheated on you? there must be a reason; you have gone from calling him your boyfriend to all of these things. clearly you're not happy or in love, and maybe he's not either.

you're lucky that you are so confident,- i wasnt, as what happened to me was mostly my fault. and i feel really regretful about it.

but you seem to know what youre doing, so consider everthing i've said and think over yourself on your own for a while, and then take the plunge with the big talk with him.
but be sure you want to break it off because once you do its likely there'll be no going back.

Remember what Love is all about, then make your decision.
:) hope i helped hun ^.^
Lottey xx
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posted over a year ago 
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Thanks so much, this really helped :) Hmmm I don't think he's cheated on me, but I am getting a gut feeling that he has. When I first got with this guy he was saying he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and he even proposed to me and now it's all been thrown away...I mean I want to be with him but I'm not happy, I just want things to be like they used to be :'(
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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i know what you mean, i feel like that too. the talk is still essential, but i get the feeling you arent 100% sure you want to completely break it off. maybe invite him round, and talk about everything. tell him the thingsa youve said in this comment, ask him to be honest with you if he's cheated- you deserve that at the least. remind him about all the memories you shared, and make a decidion together if you dont want to make it alone. tell him you liked things how they were, but try to act like nothing's changed, cos maybe he liked things how they were too. hopefully itll seem more comfortable then its not going to be easy, but yea have the convo, and see where it goes. good luck ;) xx
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
klarissa03 said:
Hmmm...
If you feel unhappy...and un-loved than I think you should...
Love is about being happy... And feeling...well loved.
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suzyisbrute said:
TOTALLY!!! My x-bf was the exact same way dump him before he dumps you and embarasses you!
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DamianLUVR said:
well, if your not happy in the relationship... then thats a sign you guys should break up. All that matters is your happiness. And it doesn't seem like he's into you anymore... so yes. i think it should end.
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posted over a year ago 
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i hate that when the guy you like isnt that into you anymore- its happened to me and i found it nrlly hard to accept lol :/
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
wolfkirby said:
all guys are pigs like my ex when we were still dating he cheated on me with one of my friends!!!so you should

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Not all.
LostFan101 posted over a year ago
LostFan101 said:
Hes not worth it. Say good-bye to him and say HELLOOO to all the hot guys waitin' in line ;P Hahahahaaha
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i wish it was like that for me lol
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
KaylaPerez said:
I think you should follow your heart because someone could tell you to do something your not going to want to do so itsbest to follow your heart
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posted over a year ago 
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I asked this ages ago, we've been over a LONG time now :) but thanks for answering my question
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
sehdt said:
The final line you wrote says it all but if you need someone to confirm it for you yes get rid of him. As my mother, grandmother and probably great grandma would say There are plenty more fish in the sea you just need to catch the right one.
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posted over a year ago 
Bellzrockz said:
well u shud dump him cuz u av so many reasonz why u hate him. and defiantly if he makez u wanna throw up wen u look at him! u gotta stand ur ground girl!
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posted over a year ago 
writer67 said:
u have answered ur own question. he thinks he has found out all he needs to know about u, so he has moved on, now u have passed into freindship character, but u should have been told where u stand. seems like uve been awaiting his next move in the anticipatiion of the love factor.sad that. well its time to move on. but dont say anything to him , just move forth. he obviously has. sorry. but u have some ideas to ur relationship as it is. keep ur chin up, he may come a crawling back oneday when ur famous or with ur name in lights. then u can show him the same consideration, but u wouldnt. best u find out , r u freinds, or freinds with benefits, or . but u deserve to know what the f is going on if u have been it that inviroment of a relationship. stand proud. u r a treasure, he jus seen something else glittering in the distance. pity it was only a mirage. best u get ur answers and mov on for u have a future , of happiness and love. saddly he may not b a part of it. lucky u found out now, hey;-]
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