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Can't take it anymore....is this a sign he just isn't interested in me anymore?

Okay I've had enough now. Today my boyfriend was acting like I wasn't even there. He was talking to his friends and I was sitting near didn't even say hi or anything didn't even smile, didn't even look at me and I'm really hurt. All day it's like I was invisible.
And then one of my friends got him to come over so I could talk to him and he said "What's wrong?" and then I told him that I feel like he doesn't care anymore and then he said "Okay fine" and then just walked off. I'm depressed like fuck now cause he means the absolute world to me but he just doesn't give a shit about me and I'm literally at rock bottom now.
Also he hasn't told me he loves me in a while.
Is he worth it?

RnBStar13 posted over a year ago

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Karthigesh said:

As a guy, all I can say is, if he doesn't have the brains nor emotional capacity to see how much he is hurting you, then he does not deserve you. The sad reality is it could be he doesn't want to be with you but doesn't have the courage to man up and tell you how he feels, so he does this to make you get mad enough so you will break up with him instead.

Don't fall into the trap, if he doesn't appreciate you for the angel you are then just stop caring totally, and see if he notices, if he does then tell him that this is how he makes you feel always and you don't like it, force him to man up and be responsible.

If all else fails, you have to take control and tell him it's over. There are plenty of nice guys out there who would love to be with someone just so they can simply adore and cherish them and you deserve someone like that, heck every girl on earth deserves a guy who will not only love her, but most importantly, respect her as well and right now, your boyfriend isn't doing either of these things...

posted over a year ago

haysh but the absolue truth

2dolphn97 posted over a year ago

Oh my goodness! You seem like one of those really nice guys that any girl would want to have...I totally agree. If he isn't showing you he loves you and he can't see how much he's hurting you, then he totally does not deserve you. Karthigesh, you are telling the absolute truth :)

Jamie9800 posted over a year ago

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Thanks for the compliment lol, I'm glad I could help :)

Karthigesh posted over a year ago

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tazzy95 said:

You really need to find time off to the side away from his friends. And if he cant even do that for you, hes not. No guy is worth that much pain. He shouldnt ignore you for anything. If he really did love you, he wouldnt be like that around his friends. Hope this helps

posted over a year ago

jaimeebunny said:

Nope waste of your time
move on please don't be desperate

posted over a year ago

2dolphn97 said:

tell him to fu** off if he wants to break up w/ u than to man up and take charge being cold and distant is worse than an actual brake up. tell him i said hes a di**.

posted over a year ago

hes not worth it.

2dolphn97 posted over a year ago

Too bad it seems the guy is acting imaturely, mostly if a guy starts to act that way hes probably flirtin and mght hav seen another grl so wnts a way to break up wit u so tht his action may seem to be justified. There are many nice guys out there jst dont be sweft off by looks coz they are deceiving. U r sure goin to find ur prince charming by nw dont worry too much. :)

ceejay79 posted over a year ago

TruBerries said:

No, he isn't worth it especially when he's being an absolute jerk. My ex was sort of like that so I know how you feel. Don't waste your time and tears on someone like that.

posted over a year ago

Renesmee_Sylvie said:

You should just tell him,"Screw you!If you don't want me in your life fine!"I know it is hard to say,but if he really oves you then he would try to get you back,but if he doesn't then you'll find your real love.

posted over a year ago