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Is it possible to be in love, but not forever?

I'm in a relationship with this guy and he treats me better than any guy I've ever been with and supports me no matter what I do. He's not exactly hot but he's an amazing person and I wouldn't leave him for the world.
The problem is, I'm graduating high school this year and he is younger than me. I don't think we'll be able to easily communicate while I'm in college and even so, what if I meet someone else and I'm still with him? Also, he's kinda not supposed to date so his parents don't know about me.
I care about him deeply, but I know I won't be able to stay with him forever. But does this mean I'm not really in love?
 Sprinter23 posted over a year ago
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Karthigesh said:
Being in love does not mean being in a relationship forever. Being in love is having that one person there who cares for you no matter what, someone to support you and bring you up when you are down. Someone to hold when the world brings you down, and someone to say, no matter what you do, they will always love you. Love is also about compromise and sacrifice, so my advice is, if you honestly do love this guy like he loves you, then you have to try to make it work somehow, because not all long-distance relationships fail.

As a guy I can say that it is all down to effort. If the both of you put your hearts to it and communicate, you can reduce the distance almost to nothing. You have Skype, MSN, even Facebook, to send out a quick "Hey Dear, I'm thinking of you, have a lovely day" so that you will know that no matter how far 2 people are, you are both thinking of each other.

Being in love isn't about forever, being in love is celebrating what you have now, and not worrying about the future. As they say, come what may, good or bad, take it in your stride and grow from it. I see he really likes you and you like him too, so talk to him, work out how you are gonna talk to each other when you go to college and then let things fall where they may.

I wish you the best :)
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awww... Thank you for the advise!! Maybe you're right.
Sprinter23 posted over a year ago
Donata said:
u r in love with him
cuz being in love with someone neednt be 4 ever... sometime, u or he will perhaps fall in love with somebody else but thats just the way it is in this world^^
i actually think, right now u shouldnt think about what will happen later, just enjoy the time with him <3
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