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Okay so I got with my boyfriend like 3 weeks ago and it seems like he's losing interest already.
When I first got with him he'd be begging to spend some time with me after college and this past week it hasn't been like that at all.
He hasn't been asking me to come over to his place and he's been going to his friends. Do you think he still likes me? or is this a sign he's losing interest in me?
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IDK U SHOULD ASK HIM ABOUT WHAT`S GOING ON & I WISH THE LUCK 4 U
i_love_me posted over a year ago
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Thank you :)
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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NP =)
i_love_me posted over a year ago
 RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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littlelemon said:
Hmmm, this is a tricky one. Somehow I don't think a guy can be all over someone one minute, then get bored of them the next. I honestly couldn't say if he still likes you or not, because I don't know the whole situation, but I would recommend talking to him about it. It might not be that he's bored of you, maybe there's just something going on at home or with friends or something and he just feels that he needs to it out. Or perhaps he's just not sure how you feel about him and doesn't want to push his luck with you. Whatever it is, the best way is just to be there for him, and encourage him, or reassure him of how you feel if that's what he needs. If it turns out that he is bored of you, then that isn't your problem, so don't stress about it. Just go find another guy who'll love you forever, not just 3 weeks. Good Luck!
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Actually I confronted him about it today when I went out with him before and he told me he still loves me and stuff but I feel like he doesn't, maybe I'm just insecure.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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I think that's just a part of the whole going-out thing. you tend to feel like he/she doesn't reallu love you at the beginning of a relationship. Just give it time, if you have a long lasting relationship, you'll start to have more faith in him.
littlelemon posted over a year ago
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I hope so, I really like him but my parents say he's not worth it and I can do better
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Karthigesh said:
Well, as a guy, I can tell you for a fact that something might be bothering him that he isn't sharing with you. He could be afraid or insecure about something, which he finds hard maybe, to share with you. Try and speak to him and open up some stuff about yourself to him as well, once he is comfortable, he would open up slowly to you as well, that way he would be able to find comfort in you with regards to whatever is bothering him.

Then go on to explain that no matter how hard things are, as long as you and him have each other, you can always overcome it together. I doubt that he doesn't love you, I'm sure he does, but I sense that something is preventing him from giving you his all...
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My parents think he's not worth it. We was supposed to be going out with each other today and he sent me a message saying "I feel sick, I can't come out" I think he's just making up excuses to not see me now :'( and he was 40 minutes late when I was waiting for him yesterday. He rung me up saying "I'll be there in a minute" 40 minutes later he finally came. I was waiting out in the freezing cold for him for 40 minutes.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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What matters is you, dear :) I suggest you call him up and tell him straight out, and ask what is wrong with him and why he is behaving this way. Tell him your heart isn't something that he can take for granted, you chose him and he should feel lucky because you are with him. I hope he is honest with you, because if he isn't then he is truly hurting you. You need to find the answer as to why he is like this from him like right now because the longer it drags on, you will be one left hurt. I still stand by what I said and that is that something is bothering him and he is afraid to open up to you.
Karthigesh posted over a year ago
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