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littlelemon said:
Hmmm, I know how you feel. I'm in a similiar situation only my crush has a girlfriend already, so if it's any conselation to you, you're in an easier position than me. Ok, I think you should start by flirting mildly with him, and keep going, not pushing it until he finally starts to notice something's up. Then, I reckon you should start to flirt more strongly but still, not completely pushing it. Then, when he starts to become even more aware of your behaviour, bring it up another level. Keep going like this but don't go too far, or you'll start to freak him out, and this always ends in Disater with a capital D. If it gets to a point where he seems to be avoiding you, it's time to stop. If you're careful enough, this won't happen, but if it does, allow things to cool down for a bit and keep a level head. Take things slowly with him until he starts to trust you again. When you think it's a good time to start flirting again, build it up as before, but don't push it as far as the last time. Smile loads, seem open and friendly and approachable. Be aware of your body language but not too aware. Be careful not to seem tense at anytime. Be playful, joke around a bit, perhaps flick your hair slightly, but don't make it obvious. If you're meant to be together, soon, he'll start sending out signals himself. If you think he's starting to like you, keep it up and keep smiling. After a while, if he hasn't told you how he feels, THEN you may tell him, but only if you're certain he likes you back. DON'T take too many risks, and I repeat, KEEP SMILING! Don't ever forget to smile. It's the most important part of flirting so don't let it slip. And last of all, good luck, I hope you get together, you sound like you really love him and I hope he'll find that he loves you too! But don't let it get to you if nothing happens, it won't be long till you find someone else who you love just as much if not more, and I can guarantee that he'll like you too.
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