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Sexuality check...

My friend was holding a Halloween party last night, and me and a few other friends stayed the night. We were all wearing costumes, but for some reason I really liked hers the best; a very revealing vampyress outfit. I asked her if she could do a few poses so I could get a picture and she said it was okay.
Later today, I was looking at the photos and I realized my heart sped up a bit whenever I saw the picture. The first thing that came to my mind was, "I've never seen a Halloween costume more sexy than that."
I'm afraid I might be falling for my best friend.
She had announced she was bisexual two years ago, but I'm not sure she feels the same way. There were a few signs, but I don't even know if this is just me being an over-analyzing drama-queen like always or...if I actually am gay.
What do I do?
 taytrain97 posted over a year ago
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r-pattz said:
If she's the kind of best friend you can tell absolutely everything (every crush, every fear, etc.) to, then talk to her. It might be awkward, but she would help you figure out who you are, and it would be worthwhile in the end.
If, however, you still keep secrets from her, then you do nothing except for wait. You see what happens to your feelings (and don't you dare try to deny them), and in a couple weeks look around and see where you are. If you still like her, talk to her. If not, forget it. (Forget the crush, not the sexuality issue.)
And you are a teenager, remember. There are a lot of teenagers that question their sexuality at one point or another. It could just be a phase, part of your sex driven years. xD Also, it's my firm belief that teenage girls sexualize each other. I think this is part of the road to adulthood, this dark sexuality and confusion.
But always keep in mind that it's possible you are bi. Keep your heart and mind open. That's the best way to figure everything out.
Good luck:)
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Awww, this is a proof I'm NOT helpfulT^T I need 2 learn how 2 b helpful
MarMar_XigLux posted over a year ago
beatles1fan said:
You are not a lesbian or bisexual. It is normal to feel a little strange or uncomfortable when a girl that you know wears that kind of clothing. If it is only this once, you probably aren't. Your heart may have speed up because you were picturing all of the romantic things that could happen to you if you wore that outfit. Don't stress it.
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Best answer !
peterslover posted over a year ago
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I agree completely.
goddessoflife posted over a year ago
MarMar_XigLux said:
Ummm... ur a girl, right? cuz, then its not 'gay' its a 'lesbian'
Anyways, don't think ur lesbian only bcuz u think ur bff's Halloween costume is sexy, and the whole "heart sped up" thing is not saying anything.

I think it's not rly helping, but at least I talked about 1 subject^^'
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Stupid! Kidding! :)
CullenProperty posted over a year ago
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Hey, check out my CHANGES^^ and I finally figured out ur a girl:D
MarMar_XigLux posted over a year ago
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oh... ummm, tnks^^ I'll remember then:D I'm so stupidT^T
MarMar_XigLux posted over a year ago
doggee said:
listen. its not that everyone knows everything about sex and sexuality. many a times we have incomplete information. better to talk frankly to councilor.and if you are of other sexuality, then no need to be afraid beb, you have to accept that.
and the best way to check out is to check the frequency of such events. how many times the things like these have happened to you? what feelings you have the most? hetero or bi? talk to yourself clearly.
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