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Are we meant to be?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years, and he goes on vacation with my family. We spend almost every day together, and hes always there for me during rough times. He says he wants to get married when we turn 18, and I want to, but I don't know if the relationship will last. It's been two years, so what about 3 more??
 NCISLuver524 posted over a year ago
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Eline_K said:
Hi,

Whether you two are meant to be, I'm afraid I can't answer that. However I can give you some advice. First of all: do not get married unless you are absolutely sure this is what you want!

Getting married at 18 is pretty young. I'm 19 myself now, and I don't think I would be ready for such a commitment (and I'm a pretty responsibly person). You might think you know everything about life, but a few years later you will find out you didn't know everything yet.

It sounds to my like your boyfriend really loves you. Therefore I don't think he will mind if you don't want to marry him at 18 yet. Be honest with him. If he loves you, he will respect your doubts.

I hope this helped,

Eline
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Thanks that did!!
NCISLuver524 posted over a year ago
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Glad I could help!
Eline_K posted over a year ago
melikhan said:
i think it's a little soon 4 marriage...18 is so young for u to get marriage!u should wait at least 4 ,20...and u said he cares a bout u so he'll understand...he'll wait 4 the right time
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FearlessSinger said:
if you guys really love each other then the relationship will last... otherwise it wont... do YOU really love him? and i also think 18 is pretty young to get married... but one of my friends got married at 18 and she is in a happy marriage...
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singingqueen411 said:
Who knows if your meant to be...only God..He will lead you down the right path. If it works out awesome! Just go with the flow. It sounds like he really loves you. You have 3 years, take your time.And remember it's YOUR choice if you want to marry him and don't let him pressure you into it. It's YOUR choice(: good luck
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shivers-zimmy said:
Meant To Be? Hard To Say! I Don't Think You Should Get Married! But Has He Actually Proposed Or Is It Just Something That Comes Up In A Passing? A Young Marriage Isn't Actually Bad! My Sister Got Married At 19! She's Now Really Happy And Has Two Adorable Kids! But I Wouldn't Get Married Myself That Young! It All Depends On How In Love You Really Are! I Think Your Relationship Will Make It, I Really Do! But Why Force It To Marriage When You're Happy Now? Marriage Can Be Just A Ring On Your Finger! It's How Much You Love That Person That Really Makes It A Marriage! Sometimes Marriage Can Put Pressure On You And Ruin The Relationship-If You Aren't Ready! I Wish You And Your Boyfriend All The Best! Things Will Work Out If You Just Believe In Each Other! :)
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