Help! I think I'm in love with my friend who's been my friend for years, and he just broke up with his girlfriend but I'm afraid that asking him out would ruin our friendship...what should I do?
and he's really shy so i can't wait for him i've been waiting for him for years but i don't guess he's gotten the hint yet....
wait a couple of days, boy's don't like to show there feelings but i bet he's feeling all miserable, so wait first & spend a LOT of time together, the cinema or cafe or parties or etc etc, & when you are sure that he is al over it, then i would say; "what a hell are waiting for!! it's not like cupido is going to fall from heaven & will shoot you in the ass! grab your god damn chance!"
I suggest you wait for a little bit. Don't rush things. Give him time to get over the break up. Show him you care about him and that you'll always be there for him; after all, that's what love's all about, right? :) Guys may not show it as much, but break-ups are probably just as hard for them as it is for girls.
When everything's settled down again, go ahead and gently ask him. If you're kind and mature about it, I'm sure that no matter what his answer is, the friendship will hold firm. :-)
tell him that u want to ask him somthin then when he asks what tell him "i like u and i dont want it to hurt our friend ship," then ethier "would u go out with me?" or "i like u do u like me too?" and if he says yes ask him out
