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Please please help me!!

at the beginning of the school year this year, we had a new kid. he and i became like best friends right away, and we had so much fun together. i was always laughing around him. everyone always said we liked each other, but we both denyed it. in november, he moved back to pennsylvania, where he was from. we still texted, though. about a month ago, my friend took my phone and texted him, pretending to be me, saying that i liked him and i always did and all that. when he texted back, he said he's liked me too. we decided that we couldnt have a relashinship because it would be long distance. i never told him it was really my friend who had texted him, because i DID like him. after that convorsation, he never answered my texts. on th 4th of july, i sent him a very long text, basically saying he was my best friend i had teh potential to fall in love with. he still hasnt texted back. i dont know what to do or what to think- please give me some advice!!
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poor girl :((
clobby11 posted over a year ago
 booklover13 posted over a year ago
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boolander25 said:
Well I'm guessing that he decided that after you guys both told each other that you liked each other, and that you can't have a relationship, that talking to you would just make things awkward. Maybe he's avoiding you because it would be weird to still be friends after that. I did the same thing and sent my ex a long letter about how much I liked him and we ended up getting back together (but it wasn't like a long distance thing so that doesn't help).

I think you should move on from him because it would probably be for the best, instead of getting stuck up on some guy you won't see again. OR take the optimistic route. Keep waiting for him to text you. Maybe his phone got taken away and he really wants to talk to you; or maybe he's stranded on a desert island with no phone reception (my optimistic thoughts get out of hand). But you never know. Go with what you think is more realistic and see where that takes you.

Hope I helped, I'm not a very sensitive person, so I never know what exactly to say,
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holy -CENSOR- I typed a lot.
boolander25 posted over a year ago
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thanks it did help :) i dont think he would stop texting me though...he wasnt really like that. like, he was one of teh east-serious people i know, and we were like best friends before we admitted we liked each other. and when we did, we agreed we wanted to stay friends, no matter what. thanks for the advice, though :) ill keep hoping :)
booklover13 posted over a year ago
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You're welcome
boolander25 posted over a year ago
Muniekax3 said:
i can kinda relate to that story..... U kinda were late bout telling him all of dat... buht itz ok cause u learn frum your mistakes.. His prob. tryin 2 move on or he juss doesnt want 2 tlk anymore.. Give him a lil more time... may b itz best for you 2 do the same and move on... I hope everything turns out gud.. Gud Luck :)!
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thanks :) and i know, i dont mind if he moves on- i probably will too- but he was defenitly a friend i didnt want to loose, even if we were in different states
booklover13 posted over a year ago
RnBStar13 said:
give him some time, he might be busy or something or just doesn't know what to say, i'm sorry my advice is crap, i'm not good at advice lol but i hope things go your way, good luck hun:)♥
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thanks :)
booklover13 posted over a year ago
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you're welcome :)
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
brooke9878 said:
I have the same problem with my bf, ever since we kissed he hasn't been answering my texts. And I'm worried... my advice is just to wait, eventually both of our guys will come around.
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thanks :) good luck with your bf by the way :)
booklover13 posted over a year ago
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Your welcome
brooke9878 posted over a year ago
animelove30 said:
Wait for him to text back! He just is sorta nervous to text back but give him some time he'll come around.
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okay, thanks :)
booklover13 posted over a year ago
shivers-zimmy said:
He Sounds Great-But Really Worth Waiting Around For? Heres The Deal, Move On! If He Texts You Back That He Just Got His Phone Taken Away, Awesome! But Do You Really Like Him, Or Do You Just Like The Drama? I Know It's Blunt, But It's True! You Have To Know The Difference Between Liking Someone And Liking The Idea Of Liking Someone!

Also Why Hurt Yourself More? If He Starts Texting You, Then Text Back, But Make The Conversation Short! This Way You Can Start Moving On, But He Doesn't Know It! Once You're Completely Free Of Liking Him Then Text Him And Let Him Know You're Still Best Friends! This Way You Get To Keep The Friend, But Both Of You Have Moved On, So You Both Clearly Know That It's Just Friends!

If He Doesn't Text You Back, Then Tell Him You Have A Boyfriend! Tell Him That your Friend Was The One Who Told Him You Liked Him! This Will Start An Argument, Wich Will Get You Talking Again! Just Talk It Out And Get Back To Being Friends!

Either Way I Think You Should Stay Friends! Long Distance Relationships Rarely Work! I Hope My Advice Helped! I've Done Both Of These Things! Of Course It Wasn't In The Same Situation As Yours, But It Worked! I Wasn't Trying To Be Rude In The First Part Of My Comment! I Was Just Trying To Put It Out There For You To See Bluntly! I Have Personal Expierence With That, It Didn't End Well! I'm Just Trying To Save You! Keep Strong And Take Are Of Buisness! :)
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thanks :) and i get what you mean by the whole drama thing, but when he was actually at my school, i was trying to avoid drama by telling myself i DIDNT like him, and seeing as it turned out i DID, that didnt really work ou :( and its hard to explain teh situation well, because he was so DIFFERENT from other guys...he was so unserious and fun. but thanks anyways for the advice :)
booklover13 posted over a year ago
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:) No Problem!
shivers-zimmy posted over a year ago
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shivers-zimmy, y did you capitalise the firt letter of every word in that answer?
skytail127 posted over a year ago
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It was something I used to do. People payed attention when I did it though.
shivers-zimmy posted over a year ago
skytail127 said:
well that realy sucks. i can kind of relate to it. and id suggest moveing on. though you may want to try sending him an emeail or finding him on facebook and sending him a message. its possible he like lost his phone or something and cant text.
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this girl is always right take her advice trust me she helped me
sweetdude89 posted over a year ago
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