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LGBT When did you realize you were LGBTI?

351 fans picked:
Early teens (13-15).
   24%
Preteen (10-12).
   21%
I'm not LGBTI.
   20%
Later teens (16-19).
   11%
Before I was 10.
   8%
I had a revelation ___, but looking back, I had...
I had a revelation ___, but looking back, I had always kind of known.
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I always knew.
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In my 20's.
   3%
Idk
Idk
   1%
(added by Nea13)
I&# 39; m Asexual :)
I'm Asexual :)
   1%
(added by ktichenor)
After/when I turned 30.
   1%
 Spotty_Vision21 posted over a year ago
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Spotty_Vision21 picked Early teens (13-15).:
For the record, all of the pictures are totally random/looked up on google image search. Except for the early teens one. That actually is me xD! Oh, and also - I put LGBTI (Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, intersex) so it is universally okay. Like, i'm aiming this at everyone, not just one specific group.
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benji picked Before I was 10.:
I'd go with "I always knew", and in some way I know I did, but it wasn't until I was nine that I accepted that I liked the handsome princes in fairytales as well as the princessed :P
posted over a year ago.
 
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dramallama56 picked I'm not LGBTI.:
I'm straight! So...not really applicable here XD No but now you're probably wondering why I joined this spot and that's cuz I have tons of LGBT friends. I think I only know two or three straight guys, to be honest. But...anyways. I've always known that I'm straight, except for a short period of time where I started doubting myself. But that actually passed and now I'm totally confident about myself. I like the icon BTW.
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Spotty_Vision21 picked Early teens (13-15).:
Thanks, dramallama56!

Anyways, I suppose I could have rephrased the question a bit. I mean, I "knew" for a while but didn't accept it until I was 14. Ah well.
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Praesse picked I'm not LGBTI.:
I'm straight too. I mean, if I ever like a girl, I would go for it, but for now i've only liked boys, so... :P
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Sbossuy picked I'm not LGBTI.:
Same as Praesse.
And I know I would go for it because sometimes I wish I was a gay man insted of a straight woman. Not bec I feel I was born into the wrong sex but because men have less wories¬¬ no waxing, no period(¬¬) WAY easier sexual satisfaction(I know we can have it too, but I'm just saying it easier) plus, if I wanted multiple orgas tantric!:)
Jajaj of course this is only sometimes, I love beeing a woman;:) and this is mostly from watching too much of Queer as Folk xD
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AllisonCameron picked Early teens (13-15).:
I think I was 13, but I'm not exactly sure anymore. It's been apart of me for so long it is almost like I've always known.
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duckey94 picked Before I was 10.:
In 3rd grade, I think it was. That was when I had my first crush on a girl. Although I can't really remember now that I think about it.
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kawaii_neko picked Early teens (13-15).:
well I came out of the closet recently but I had been suspecting since I was like 10 It was a pretty weird phase I had, I couldn't stop watching breasts, even if I didn't knew what they were or anything =S
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Interficcia picked I'm not LGBTI.:
EHM, Dupi, I know it first hand¬¬ And you better stop trying to rape me.
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kateliness2 picked I'm not LGBTI.:
I must say that I *adore* this icon ----->>>>
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robertchaseicu picked Early teens (13-15).:
I'm bi, but I only figured that out a few days ago when I was watching the fourth season of House M.D. and figured out that I had a crush on Thirteen (a female bi character) even though I'm in love with a male character in the same TV show...
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Hazy picked Preteen (10-12).:
I was 12 when I realised that something funny was going on, but I had a crush on a girl in my class before that. We're still friends and she doesn't know I'm bi. I'm 16 and I still haven't come out yet but I'm working up to it. The forums on this spot are very helpful. :)
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cents4spence picked Preteen (10-12).:
i knew wen i was 10 cuz i had a crush on my brother's best friend
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RainbowGeek819 picked I'm not LGBTI.:
Well Im Not Gay or Bi but my best Friend In whole wide world (next to my boyfriend) is gay so For his Shake I'll Join this Spot
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miss73 picked I'm not LGBTI.:
theres times where i think that i might like girls....but im pretty sure that im straight.....
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Lunaste picked Before I was 10.:
This is pretty much synonymous with 'I always knew' for me. I knew when I was around nine, ten years old, but it wasn't a revelation or something. When I started to get crushes I just noticed that I liked girls as much as I liked boys.
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jamfan4 picked I'm not LGBTI.:
I'm not LGBT but I'm in full support of them and I have a couple friends who are, hence why I joined this spot. I adore the icon you gave the straight crowd. :D
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Shaluna picked Preteen (10-12).:
12 or 13, I put 10-12.
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PatoPop picked Preteen (10-12).:
I can't remember exactly, but as much as I remember, It was very early
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megand89 picked Before I was 10.:
I still remember the girls named that I had my first crush on
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CuddyHuddy picked Preteen (10-12).:
I had my first experience when I was seven or eight, but I didn't really start thinking about it until I was about eleven or twelve.
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OceanCoast picked Later teens (16-19).:
awhile back I was sitting on a bench at the Boardwalk and I caught myself noticing guys and GIRLS walking by and had an epiphany.
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sakono picked Preteen (10-12).:
i realized it when i was 12 ! its more 90 (boys) 10 (girls) but it changes every now and then ...... to tell u the truth i've only liked 3 girls more than friends ....
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Dragonclaws picked Later teens (16-19).:
I had been thinking kind of abstractly about it for a while, but it came together when I was 16 and I had gay dreams about Angel and Spike, of the shows Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Angel. :) It took me about a year to decide I was bi, though. Seriously, the amount of denial I went through was crazy, to think about it now. The culture, for all its improvements over the decades, is really opposed to homosexuality.
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sakono picked Preteen (10-12).:
i have officially excepted it and i have my eyes on someone else ......
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Lunatic picked I'm not LGBTI.:
I totally want a button or t-shirt with the text in the pick picture.
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TheAnswer picked Early teens (13-15).:
This is when I really knew, but I realize that I had crushes on girls in elementary school, but at the time I didn't know what that meant.
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velvet_fox picked Preteen (10-12).:
Well it's odd I just recall having a massive crush on my maths teacher Miss Pigeon when I was 11 and even told my sister (she said I was being silly) but I just kind of knew....yet ignored it as homosexuality was not looked kindly upon in my family. It was never talked of as an option in life. I grew up thinking women and men got married and everyone did that regardless.

I was perhaps confused and hadn't admitted it fully to myself till I was 15. Not because I ever liked guys, but because I was waiting to like guys. I'd have certain feelings towards girls, and I saw my straight friends all around me talking about having a crush on so and so and I'd look around and think why don't I feel like that about guys? Why do I feel like that about girls? I thought one day it would hit me and suddenly I'd find men attractive too but it never happened...... then I came to terms with my sexuality.
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MrSymphonic picked Preteen (10-12).:
The internet really helped!
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rockzsanders picked Preteen (10-12).:
When I was 11, I was really really bicurious. I thought I was a lesbian, actually. But when I was 12, I realized I was bi. :)
<3
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TDI_Angel picked Idk:
When I was younger I thought they're something funny with me. Then when I was 11 (6th grade) I got a huge crush on a girl. It was embarresing. Then in 7th grade I read a book called "Annie on my Mind" (GREAT book) that made me really wonder if I was a lesbian... And now, I'm not sure what I am, because sometimes I like boys... Not often, though.
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K5-HOWL picked Preteen (10-12).:
im 11 right now
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sidle-brennan picked Later teens (16-19).:
I accepted it recently but I think I kinda knew for a while.. It was like an epiphany.. One day I realized that I wanted to kiss the heck out of one of my friends.
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broadwaydj1993 picked I always knew.:
Yea ive always known...but ive just accepted it within the last yr...
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sapherequeen picked Early teens (13-15).:
When I realized I had a small yet clearly present crush on a girl...
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Mrs-Grint picked Early teens (13-15).:
I'm bi and a few days after I turned thirteen I - er - had a dream... starring myself... and - er - a girl... that I (what a THOUGHT I was) a perfectly normal (well...) heterosexual girl. I haven't told anyone, and I never can. My family are homophobic and Christians. I'll be shunned.
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I don't know what I am yet. That's so sad about your family, Mrs-Grint.
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LOLerz25 picked I'm not LGBTI.:
I'm straight!
XD
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Hadley_Cameron picked Early teens (13-15).:
I actually always knew it kinda. It was like feeling something for the girl or the teacher(s) at school. When I was 14 I told some friends, all where like ok we accept and suddenly they hated me accept for 1 friend, now I have other friends that accept me. And at the same age (14) I had my first real crush she was a teacher... And I accepted at the age of 17, because my high school years was a hell time.. so I want to kill myself and stuff.. never did it or try it but thought about it and stuff. Now I'm 20 and trying to trust people and tell them I'm gay. And uhm only on Fanpop I can be myself. If I post something of facebook everybody will knows it + my family... bleeeh
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I had a revela- tion ___, but...
XxSPXCupcakesXx picked I had a revelation ___, but looking back, I had always kind of known.:
Around 11 I thought I was somewhat bi- I liked boys better
around 12 I was about half and half then I went through denile
early 13 I liked girls a bit better
late 13 and on I liked girls, not boys :P
But as a kid I looked back and saw I was always attractive to girls because I always caught myself staring or thinking about it. XD My mom is also bi- but she liked girls better then guys.
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charmecia5 picked Before I was 10.:
in reality since i was 5.
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Hot_n_cold picked Preteen (10-12).:
When I was 12 I found out.
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kiraragirl200 picked Early teens (13-15).:
I've realized that I was bisexual last December
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missdada15 picked Later teens (16-19).:
Firs of coure as a child i didnt even think about the thought that i might be something els the straight but i do remember i had a bit of a "crush" on Rose(Kate winsling) when i was watching titanic,the other girls had a crush on Jack(Leo.D) anyways when i was 14 i meet a person witch was bi for the first time and after a time i thought i was posibly bi and had some experimanting with my bf.

I had a lot of boy friend but never felt nothing too them i just had them ecause everyone does and i got gifts lol.stupid i know XD

Anyway just a year ago when i was 16 i knew thet i was atrectid too girls 100% and maybe 20% too guys...i still aint sure if that makes me a lesbian or bi...but the only person i was evr in love with and still am is a girl :P
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LightHawk picked In my 20's.:
25, but the "revelation" answer is applicable, too. :)
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jblvr picked I always knew.:
i always new that i was transgendered
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jbieberluver94 picked Later teens (16-19).:
Just found out 3 months ago
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avatar2012 picked Early teens (13-15).:
well im kinda complicated. when i was around 9 or 10 my friend and i would play games that would lead to us kissing. Throughout the years (9-14) i tried to pray my bisexuality away and i tried to deny it. But by 14 after my friend and I had had full out sex, i finally accepted it and came to terms with my sexuality.
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kissthespider26 picked Later teens (16-19).:
The signs were there since I was like, 8, but I'm so dumb I never realised. I mean, I was saving pictures of Jessica Alba in a bikini, and honestly, this went on for a while. I fell in love with an older woman, had erotic dreams about her, and I still didn't get it. I should be institutionalised, I'm such an idiot, lol
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I had a revela- tion ___, but...
piperlovegood picked I had a revelation ___, but looking back, I had always kind of known.:
It's complicated. Being in a very narrow christin household I dismissed it and denied it. I don't have any particualr memories of "signs", I was one of the guys in the neighborhood and would beat them up if they said I was really a girl. Eventually I feel for one of the main guys I hung out with since preschool. He was my first boyfriend, then he moved. After I found myself making out with my mostly straight female bff. Once again I denied it. I got another serious boyfriend and we were together and almost got married until about 6 months ago. Now I'm starting to realize that I might just be gay. I'm still very confused; I'm 22 now.
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93shadowwolf picked Early teens (13-15).:
I realized it the night of my 13th birthday, actually.
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YoYoLover4Ever picked Early teens (13-15).:
I found out when I joked about kissing one of my friends; and then they made me kiss them. And I enjoyed it one hundred percent. :) Makes me glad I found out!
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NightFrog picked Early teens (13-15).:
It took the entire stretch of my 15th year to figure it out. Before, I didn't really focus on my sexuality.
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RenderedUseless picked Before I was 10.:
I had the biggest crush on a girl I knew in third grade. Afterwards, in fifth grade, I had developed feelings for another girl in my class. :3
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gwenxduncanyay picked Preteen (10-12).:
I had some experience with liking my best friend. He would come over to my house and I would have urges to...this will sound perverted, so don't be immature, I would have urges to sleep with him. Or kiss him. He was the cutest person to me. He was kind and never would hurt me. I felt weird because mom always told me that boys don't like boys. They like girls. Because the Bible said so. I mean, I wasn't trying to go against my religion. But, you can't help who you fall in love with. I told her that many times. She finally accepted it. But, my dad never did.
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brandonaz picked Preteen (10-12).:
probably around 12 haha. i was in denial for a couple years though :/
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NCISLuverjk93 picked Later teens (16-19).:
I just fell in love with a girl last summer. Before then, I was/thought I was completely straight. I was 17,
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Fassmckee picked I always knew.:
very very young, I realized I acted like a boy, but was in love with my best friend Sharon. It took til my early teens to come to grips with my bisexuality.
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HPdirectioner picked Early teens (13-15).:
I actually realized I was into both around 13, and kept it to myself then. But then I suddenly "decided" I wasn't and for the next few years thought I was straight. But then I realized it again around my 17th birthday and this time I finally accepted it! I've been out for almost a year now :)
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tamore picked Preteen (10-12).:
Seventh grade, had a crush on the new girl in school lmao.
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Violet_Shade picked Preteen (10-12).:
around 11 yrs old
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ARIEL-RAPUNZEL picked Preteen (10-12).:
I accepted it when I was 16.
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glelsey picked In my 20's.:
For a long time I assumed I was straight just because I'm heteroromantic. Didn't really start figuring out my sexual orientation until just over a year ago (late summer of 2013).
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IllusionDolls picked Early teens (13-15).:
well, it started with the discovery that i was panromantic. i was fifteen at the time;
and approximately four months ago, this time around at the age of sixteen i discovered myself to be on the nonbinary spectrum. that choice of wording is because i still tend to experience gender confusion so it's subject to change but i am certain to be nb at the least;
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xXTheMangleXx picked Preteen (10-12).:
I knew I was attracted to girls when I was 6, but I didn't know I was a -panromantic- lesbian 'til I turned 13.
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misscindyspice picked Early teens (13-15).:
I only learned what "pansexual" and "asexual" meant when I was twelve, but it took me a hell of a long time to figure out "oh, that's me"
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I had a revela- tion ___, but...
BennieBear27 picked I had a revelation ___, but looking back, I had always kind of known.:
I remember two incidents: one where I was playing as a boy (I was born a female, identify as gender fluid) on a website, don't remember what. My mom came in, saw that and said to stop. So I dressed my character back up as a boy. But I still did this sometimes.
Another time, about a year later, I told my mom that I sometimes wished I was a boy or sometimes felt more like a boy. Once again, my mom kinda shot that down.

All that happened when I was 8-10 I believe. I always felt like this, just didn't realize
my gender until about a year ago, despite always being this way. Anyway, there's a reason why I'm not out to my parents yet...
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kkzeus picked Preteen (10-12).:
This is when I found a name for it, before i just knew myself as very tomboy
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legend_of_roxas picked Preteen (10-12).:
When I was 11 or 12 I realized that I really liked other boys, but I didn't accept it and tried to make myself straight until I was 16. I regret that, but now I love myself for who I am.
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0YouCanFly0 picked Preteen (10-12).:
Middle school. Knowing I was trans and bi... what an interesting time
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I&# 39; m Asexual :)
ktichenor picked I'm Asexual :):
I kind of always knew but I didn't know what it was until I was in my thirties
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I&# 39; m Asexual :)
alice25141 picked I'm Asexual :):
When I was 11 I think I was Aromantic but that was before I started seeing all the complicated stuff. Now I'm Ace.
posted over a year ago.