We'll I been a fan of you since the show started,I feel like you guys are family,your children are so gorgeous,I'am sorry for what your going thru,how can you have patience with 8 kids I only have one and sometimes he drives me crazy,and that's why your super MOM KATE.We'll I hope you have time to write me back I totally understand if you can't.we'll kate care of yourself,hope one day i can meet you in person. Hope one day you come to Sacramento ok bye!