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hey, i used to be a christian girl, but last year, i turned goth, everyone keeps saying they miss the old me, so i dont no wat 2 do! i need help... plez!!!!!

 channyfan121 posted over a year ago
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Brandey said:
It's not about religion-I'm christian and goth..I advice you to be a goth,cuz that is how you feel like and nobody can tell you who to be...

Just be yourself-whatever you feel it is!
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mcrkilljoygirl said:
Just be yourself,be how you are be free if you want to dress black,pruple or pink your friends dosent have to arque or say anything to you because that what you want to do.... & Bessides if you turned Goth that dosent mean you have to change inside your still the same only the outside what's difference.
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Hope i helped
mcrkilljoygirl posted over a year ago
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thxs :)
channyfan121 posted over a year ago
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np ^^
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sesshyswind said:
Just do whatever you feel is You. If it's not You then what is it? Do you miss the old you, or are you happy with being goth, because it is just you being yourself, or are you having second thoughts because it's not and it's just a phase you are going through. Questions you need to think about, answering them should help your problem.

I hope, just trying to help.

Also being goth should have absolutely no effect on rather or not you are a christian, you can be goth and christian. Pleanty of goths are christians. They can be whatever they want to be, being goth is a personal life style and there are no rules to it.
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sawfan13 said:
I know how you feel. But never forget this: No matter what your outer shell apearence is, you inner soul is what tells others who you really are. the steriotypes block everything, but they're too afraid to look into your eyes to look through the windows of your soul. The old you was probably your cocoon, and your new self is just the beginning of your metamorphosis of searching yourself and trying to become a woman of what she sets her own rules, instead of listening to others. They don't understand, as they secretly want to be like you, but underneath they're souls are writhing in pain, wishing to be what they want to be, but their washed away from fear of what others may think. Your change of not listening to others and their opinions, shows that your a strong willed, confident person who is brave and strong. We maybe all individuals, but I can see outer shells that long to be like the others, but not all can be alike or the same. If we were all like one another, the world be an asylum of happy smiling zombies that suffer from fear of termination and being outcasted. Never be afraid of who you are, man!! Live up to your goals!
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Gerardwayluvr97 said:
just tell them tht u like the new u, if u do, and if their true friends they'll say by ur side no matter what. If they don't then find new ones who will stick by u changes or no changes. Let me know if it helps!
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Dark-Blood said:
u can be goth and still be Christian lol and if U like the way u look and act then stay that way ur not here to impression others or make others happy ur here for u
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