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So...why is there all this Finn hate going around? Is it because of Shipper reasons or because he had casual sex with Santana, or am I missing something? Because Finn has his faults, but I really like him.

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Can't say - I like Finn.
Cinders posted over a year ago
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And just so you guys know, I'm not a Finn obessor. I don't 'love' or 'adore' him, and I agree that he has his faults. I simply don't udnerstand this fiery passion hatred.
robothor1111 posted over a year ago
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I'm ok with Finn. I think he's adorkable with his awkward dancing and mediocre singing skills. And as for his....girls.... well, he's a high school guy, come on! Let the guy have his fun before he settles down. Look at Will! He was with Terri his whole high school and college, he never "sowed his oats" and now he's got Shelby, April, Emma and terri under his belt. So, I think it's better that Finn start early, be a man-whore in high school and when he finally does settle, he'll know it's with the right girl.
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Gleek4ever said:
i really like finn. and face let's face it, since sectionals he's had it kinda rough. first babygate broke out, then he broke up with quinn, he doesn't talk to his former best friend anymore, he tries to get rachel back and she rejects him, he continues to try to win her back only to find out that she's with somebody else, his mom starts dating again, kurt starts acting super sketch towards him, and then rachel used him!!! i mean, really? cut him some slack!
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i really like finn. and face let's face it, since sectionals he's had it kinda rough. first babygate broke out, then he broke up with quinn, he doesn't talk to his former best friend anymore, he tries to get rachel back and she rejects him, he continues to try to win her back only to find out that she's with somebody else, his mom starts dating again, kurt starts acting super sketch towards him, and then rachel used him!!! i mean, really? cut him some slack!
posted over a year ago 
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Actually, him and Rachel were together, and HE rejected her by saying that she was too much and broke up with her. Also, Finn was the one trying to help his mom date Burt, that's a little selfish of him to try and stop her from. Especially after almost 14 years, give your mom a break! Rachel used him in a video, when he knew she had a boyfriend... what did he expect?
Shandiii posted over a year ago
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I TOTALLY agree with Gleek4ever! Finn is great! its not his fault other ppl are being whores and weirdos and acting the way they r acting! Rachel TOTALLY stepped over the line making that video. It would have been a cool video if that was the actual case, but it wasn't. she HAD a perfect bf (jessie) and then ruined her relationship and probably all her future high school relationships by making that dumb video! she deserves everything she gets!
madhattergirl posted over a year ago
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i completely i agree with you. finn is one of the most hated characters when i think he shoul be on of the most loved. he is sweet, funny, and has been through a lot with the whole quinn thing. finn deserves some love people!
leeceylou posted over a year ago
Shandiii said:
Because Finn is made out to be the good guy, when he isn't, he's selfish, rude, and has yet to treat Rachel with much respect when they're actually together. I could even make another list of how many times Finn has let Rachel down.
And all of the sudden he has the cheesiest lines;
"I didn't feel anything, because this meant nothing" Don't make me puke! Just a couple of episodes he was the biggest goofball, and those words would have never been said by him.
They are trying to make him out to be some Romeo, when he obviously isn't.
And last episode when he got in Rachel face about acting like a whore with the video, he was so out of line! Jesse was the only one who was allowed to get offended by it, because he was her boyfriend.
Finn just spoke up because he's arrogant and everything is always someone else's fault. Yeah, Rachel used them, but he has no right to call her a whore when he dumped her to date 2 cheerios, and then slept with one and then lied about it!!
Which btw, I don't care that he slept with Santana, because I'd rather Finn and Santana date then Finn and Rachel.
I'm tired of other people's recorded songs being cut to make room for his auto-tuned songs.
Now that I've seen Jesse, who is far more talented vocally, and acting, I just cannot listen to Finn's voice anymore.

And Finn used to be my 2nd favorite character, now he's probably 2nd to last.
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posted over a year ago 
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*Standing ovation*
nevermind606 posted over a year ago
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shandi...this is brilliantly written. bravo.
oPositive posted over a year ago
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nope dont agree
newyork621 posted over a year ago
nevermind606 said:
The bottom line is, he's a selfish jerk. He's supposed to be this amazing hero, and all he ever does is think of himself. When he doesn't want Rachel, oh that's fine... He's just confused, but when Rachel doesn't want him, she's the one who's in the wrong. Nothing is ever his fault. When his mother wants to actually have a life with a man that she cares about, that's not okay, because it's not what he wants. It drives me crazy that so many people support him with Rachel when all he ever does is let her down. When he was with Quinn, he was always choosing her, when he finally got with Rachel, he wanted to date Brittany and Santana. Also, he didn't have any right to get as mad at Quinn as he did when he found out the baby wasn't his. He cheated on Quinn with Rachel more than once, but of course... He's the one that cheated, so it's okay, but don't cheat on Finn! He's a saint! (Yes, most of my reasons are about Rachel, cry about it. Rachel is the person that Finn has treated the worst, it has nothing to do with the fact that I prefer St. Berry)

And robothor1111, I've seen you around the St. Berry spot posting hate comments, please stop with the immaturity. KTHNKS.
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posted over a year ago 
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^My thoughts exactly in a better worded paragraph! You nailed it, nothing is ever his fault and everyone else is to blame... poor confused little Finn can do no wrong because he doesn't know better.... grow up! Also, agree, about the immaturity comment, so tired of haters invading other people's spots. The spot wasn't created for you!
Shandiii posted over a year ago
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I don't think that comparing Finn's wrong doings to other characters mess-ups is a way to determine the level of dislike one "should" have for him. He has made mistakes that stand on their own. Comparing them to "worse-mistakes" doesn't make his go away... am I making sense...? Meh.
musicalpisces91 posted over a year ago
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You make sense, don't worry.
robothor1111 posted over a year ago
Starry_eyed24 said:
I personally don't get all this hate towards him.
He seems like he's one of the most genuinely good at heart characters but yet whatever he does people seem to hate him more.
I get that he's not perfect and he's made a ton of mistakes but what character is perfect?
Yeah he can be selfish but what person on this earth isn't?
Yeah he's made mistakes but he really seems to be learning from them.
The whole him not wanting his mother to date burt thing, yeah he was selfish in the beginning but did you even see the end of the episode? He accepted burt in the end because he saw that he loved her and made his mother happy. selfishness done.
Also last episode he NEVER called rachel a whore he called her out on something that she did that was wrong he didn't speak up because he was being arrogant or because he wanted attention he spoke up because he was genuinely hurt that rachel had used him.and for the people who saw him as self centered there he was speaking on behalf of all three of the guys not just himself.
On the Rachel front yeah he's let her down a lot and did break her heart, but you have to realize that in Hell-o with the whole brittana situation he was in a really rough place he'd just found out that for the past like 4 months he's been lied to about being the father of a child when really it's his best friend's. Normal betrayal from a best friend hurts but finding out your best friend slept with your girlfriend got her preggers and helped her lie to you about the father hood and now you've lost two people whom you were really close to that's gotta be absolutely terrible. Mix that hurt with Rachel jumping on him and being incredibly forward to the point where it's creepy (don't get me wrong I love rachel but those calanders were crossing the line I don't know any guy who wouldn't run) and some not so hot advice from will and you've got him making bad decisions and just wanting some of his old life back.
After all that though he was able to figure out that he actually had feelings for her and is really starting to show it he, even admitted that he totally effed up with rachel and it was all his fault and agreed to back off once he saw that rachel was happy with jesse which is actually pretty selfless,considering how much he wants her.
For those who dislike him because of his voice that's a personal opinion, idk I think his voice is fine I enjoy it but I can see where some people don't.
Idk most of the people here who seem to passionately hate Finn seem to be the ones who absolutely love Jesse and St.Berry in particular so maybe that's where this hate comes from.
It seems really harsh though to feel this much hate towards a fictional character..
One last thing I don't know where this idea of he's supposed to be this hero comes from? Who ever said he was supposed to be a hero?
That was all over the place but whatever I'm just sick of all the hate he gets
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posted over a year ago 
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wow.... i totally agree with you- perfectly said no one can really argue with that
JimmyManceLuvr posted over a year ago
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THIS! All of this so much!
Mouraki posted over a year ago
Mermaid-Tail said:
I don't hate or even dislike him, he's just one of my least favourites (though I do agree with a lot Shandiii and nevermind606 said about him in their answers). What makes it frustrating is that for someone I think is one of the least interesting or likeable characters he gets some of the most focus. I think almost every member of the glee club is more interesting, so it gets annoying that the show's focus is often so unbalanced in his direction. Especially since the time we spend with him could be spent developing some of the interesting characters we haven't seen as much of. I don't even want him demoted to a background character or anything, just less of a 'star' since I can't understand what earned him that status. He's an ok character with an ok voice getting more attention than the great characters with great voices he's surrounded by.
I'm sure shipping comes into it for some who dislike him, but I think I'm probably not the only one who gets more easily annoyed by him than they otherwise would because they feel he gets focus he doesn't deserve that takes away from characters they'd rather see. He's like an ok movie. You didn't hate it, you might even enjoy parts, but if someone tries to make you watch it once a week it starts winding you up.
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xtorbaby said:
I love Finn, even though he's extremely confused, dim-witted, and makes bad decisions. That's just who he is. I believe he's a genuine good guy, though he has countless character flaws.
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swimchick said:
I've never liked Finn. I don't think he has a good voice, he's really dumb and reminds me of Joey Tribiani in a bad way. I don't think he's cute, he treats Rachel poorly, he's not dependable. He is really self-centered and a hypocrite (bitching out Rachel for caring too much about her reputation. HELLO???? What was his deal in the first 13 eps then???). When he welcomed Jesse to Glee club by saying he was "tired of carrying the male vocals" I nearly screamed. I'm so sick of his voice and him saying that was cocky and unnecessary. (Sorry I'm reaching rant mode, I'm just going to stop.)
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VictoriNoRisuu said:
Most things has been said before, but I'll try to sum up my reasons:

1.He wasn't faithfull to Quinn while he thought she's carring his child(did he ever loved her or just made out because of her looks/popularity?)
2. He broke up with Rachel, but the moment he started ralationship with Jesse & seemed happy he immediately wanted to be with her (kind of the Dog in the Manger, don't you think?)
3. He was still seeing Rach, when he made out with Britanny & Santana, just to proof... what? How cool he is making of with TWO cheerleaders at once?)
4. He sletp with Santana. Sleeping with one girl doesn't make you whore, sure... But sleeping with one girl without any feelings, just to lose "it"...? Can you fall any lower?
5.He tried to screw his mom's relationship - who selfish was it? Doesn't she deserve even a little happiness after all those lonely years?
6.I get why he was pissed off at Rachel after the video, he had total right to be hurt. But he seemd more angry then Jesse... Calm down Hudson, there are more important people in this hate-Rachel-at-the-moment queue...

That's probably all... Plus I'm really tired with him taking all solos... But it doesn't really count as much.
That's all.
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NicolaG3302 said:
i think finn hates going around because he kepts talking to racheal saying thts he loves her
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katiecain said:
All of this Finn hate seems to have come along the same time Jesse did. I may be totally wrong, but that's what it seems like. I love Finn, I think he's a total sweetheart who has been through loads. I think he is a much better person than Quinn (honestly have never seen redeeming qualities about her until 'Home') and Jesse (I'm sorry but getting angry because a girl you barely know won't have sex with you, even if you apologise, makes you a jerk in my eyes) and they seem to be loved a lot around here. But that's just me, everyone has different tastes and opinions and are entitled to have them.
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posted over a year ago 
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I AGREE why is jesse and her so loved? because there alike in that they have the same goals for singing no no thats no a good reason for why they shoudld be together finn and her have been through more
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newyork621 said:
YOU PEOPLE REALLY SHOULD CUT HIM SOME SLACK lets see his girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend & shes pregnant with his best friends baby. id be pretty upset if that happend to me! now the one thing he had no idea he wanted all along has left him for another guy. seriosuly cut him some slack hes not a bad guy he just wants to be with rachel even though he knows how poorly he treated her what was he supposed to do.quinn told him he was gonna have a child of course he would be with quinn if it was hers.BTW HE IS A GOOD SINGER
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posted over a year ago 
Charming_angel said:
What do you mean with shipper reasons?
I don't understand what it means
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Madelayna said:
in a few words...In my opinion he can't sing.he can't move.he's boring, selfish and dumb. I wonder what's to like about him?
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