Almost every BD/SE fan I’ve talked to have been telling me that DE is against morals, it’s wrong for you to date your ex boyfriend’s brother. Now if this wasn’t a show about vampires and where everything morally right gets thrown out the window then I might see their side of why DE is “wrong” but I don’t. Because this show isn’t based on what is right and wrong, it doesn’t have to follow the human code of how you date or who you are with. It is a show based on great storytelling and sometimes the people we least expect end up together. Even if it is deemed as wrong in the eyes of a few people. Isn’t it wrong to kill people? Snap their necks? Rip their hearts out? Torture them? That is viewed as wrong in today’s world and if anybody were to do that then they would probably get put in prison or get the death penalty. So if we can watch a show were horrible, terrible things happen then why can’t we watch a show where two people get together, despite the fact Elena would be with Stefan’s brother? It doesn’t make any sense. If this show was based on morals then this show wouldn’t even be on the air because almost everything in it goes against today’s views and morals. Hypocrisy right there.
People date whoever they want, despite it being wrong. Girl’s go out with their ex boyfriend’s brother despite how wrong it is in the eyes of some people. So why can’t that happen in the TV show? Because it’ll ruin the brother’s relationship? That’s the furthest thing from the truth. Stefan won’t throw away his relationship with his brother. They love each other and won’t let Elena tear them apart. They have already learned that from 1864 when Katherine got between them.
If SE/BD fans want to talk morals and how DE are so wrong for each other then what about Stefan? He slept with Katherine first, who is related to Elena. He killed Elena’s ancestors in the past, and he is still in love with Katherine. No girl would want to be with a guy who did that, but since this isn’t a show about only humans where morality would apply, that does not matter. This isn’t the Vampire Diaries where morals apply. Do you know how boring a vampire show would be if it was constantly based around morals? It would be awful! There would be no killing, no bloodshed, no nothing that is even remotely interesting because it will be wrong in the public eye.
Hardly any TV show is based around morals anymore, and that’s because when people watch TV, they’re not looking for a show with morals, they want a show with a good storyline, a good plot, action, and basically anything else they find interesting. They do not want to watch a show revolving around morals! Honestly who wants to do that? That stuff is boring as hell. Moral free shows FTW.
It’s really sad seeing people pulling the moral card on a TV show that doesn’t have any morals to begin with. What vampire show has morals?
Some people say that it goes against their morals. Excuse me but why are you watching a vampire show? It goes against almost everyone’s morals. You aren’t special. The writer’s aren’t going to write a show based on your beliefs or anyone else’s. They know this is a vampire show and whatever morals they have is being tossed out because they can’t apply it to a show that has so many unmoral things already in it.
The reason why there are so many DE shippers is because we do not watch the show with our morals, our beliefs out on our chest. We know that the show will have things in it that we won’t see as right, but do we say anything? No we don’t. I’m sure that everyone agrees that killing people is wrong, it goes against our morals, but yet we still can look at Damon, Elijah, Stefan, etc and say, “Damn, Elijah is so BAMF! Did you see Stefan rip out that heart or Damon drain that girl? So freaking hot!” If this was real life we would be horribly disgusted, and want nothing to do with them and possibly want to kill them for doing something so horrible. But this is TV, where things like that can happen and we wouldn’t be disgusted by it. So if SE/BD fans can say that DE is wrong while calling Stefan or Elijah a BAMF for killing someone, then they really need to re evaluate their morals and use something else to hate on DE because this moral stuff is downright sickening.
I’ve said everything I’ve needed to say. If you still strongly disagree with what I have said then I strongly recommend you stop watching the show or stop watching it with your morals on your chest because in the end, you’re gonna be disappointed and disgusted with DE. It’s fine what beliefs you have, I don’t care about your morals or what you believe in but when you’re watching a TV show that is centered around vampires it’s pretty obvious that it will have immoral stuff in it, and you’re only hurting yourself by watching it while applying your morals to it.
People date whoever they want, despite it being wrong. Girl’s go out with their ex boyfriend’s brother despite how wrong it is in the eyes of some people. So why can’t that happen in the TV show? Because it’ll ruin the brother’s relationship? That’s the furthest thing from the truth. Stefan won’t throw away his relationship with his brother. They love each other and won’t let Elena tear them apart. They have already learned that from 1864 when Katherine got between them.
If SE/BD fans want to talk morals and how DE are so wrong for each other then what about Stefan? He slept with Katherine first, who is related to Elena. He killed Elena’s ancestors in the past, and he is still in love with Katherine. No girl would want to be with a guy who did that, but since this isn’t a show about only humans where morality would apply, that does not matter. This isn’t the Vampire Diaries where morals apply. Do you know how boring a vampire show would be if it was constantly based around morals? It would be awful! There would be no killing, no bloodshed, no nothing that is even remotely interesting because it will be wrong in the public eye.
Hardly any TV show is based around morals anymore, and that’s because when people watch TV, they’re not looking for a show with morals, they want a show with a good storyline, a good plot, action, and basically anything else they find interesting. They do not want to watch a show revolving around morals! Honestly who wants to do that? That stuff is boring as hell. Moral free shows FTW.
It’s really sad seeing people pulling the moral card on a TV show that doesn’t have any morals to begin with. What vampire show has morals?
Some people say that it goes against their morals. Excuse me but why are you watching a vampire show? It goes against almost everyone’s morals. You aren’t special. The writer’s aren’t going to write a show based on your beliefs or anyone else’s. They know this is a vampire show and whatever morals they have is being tossed out because they can’t apply it to a show that has so many unmoral things already in it.
The reason why there are so many DE shippers is because we do not watch the show with our morals, our beliefs out on our chest. We know that the show will have things in it that we won’t see as right, but do we say anything? No we don’t. I’m sure that everyone agrees that killing people is wrong, it goes against our morals, but yet we still can look at Damon, Elijah, Stefan, etc and say, “Damn, Elijah is so BAMF! Did you see Stefan rip out that heart or Damon drain that girl? So freaking hot!” If this was real life we would be horribly disgusted, and want nothing to do with them and possibly want to kill them for doing something so horrible. But this is TV, where things like that can happen and we wouldn’t be disgusted by it. So if SE/BD fans can say that DE is wrong while calling Stefan or Elijah a BAMF for killing someone, then they really need to re evaluate their morals and use something else to hate on DE because this moral stuff is downright sickening.
I’ve said everything I’ve needed to say. If you still strongly disagree with what I have said then I strongly recommend you stop watching the show or stop watching it with your morals on your chest because in the end, you’re gonna be disappointed and disgusted with DE. It’s fine what beliefs you have, I don’t care about your morals or what you believe in but when you’re watching a TV show that is centered around vampires it’s pretty obvious that it will have immoral stuff in it, and you’re only hurting yourself by watching it while applying your morals to it.