The other quote has been slightly spoiled for me by some fans' interpreting it as a rape threat. Obviously I don't believe that was the writers' intention with the line - it's far too dark for OUAT, they wouldn't have someone who once threatened to rape the main character becoming her main love interest without ever addressing that threat, the writers have confirmed that they always intended Captain Swan to become canon and there are hints of this in their earliest interactions. But I can also see how the line could be interpreted that way, in a darker and more adult series.